Lucy and Ethel are working on a chocolate factory assembly line. Their job is simple enough: take each chocolate as it comes down the line, wrap it up, and send it on its way.

Seems simple enough.

Then the conveyor belt speeds up, and suddenly chocolates are flying at them faster than they can keep up.

They stuff chocolates into their mouths, hide them in their hats, shove them into their pockets.

Watching that scene would always make me smile…

And then I’d turn around and go do the same thing in my own business.

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The Chocolate Factory You’re Already Running

I don’t need to draw the analogy out for you; you already know how it goes:

Every request, every decision, every Slack message, every approval comes to you.

It’s manageable when it’s coming in slowly.

But then things speed up: the launch gets closer to open cart, the ads finally start working, you’re building momentum …

And all of a sudden you’ve gone from handling things easily to wildly grabbing everything that comes flying at you and hoping you can get it where it needs to go.

The obvious solution is to change the way the chocolate (the work) comes down the pike:

Better delegation, better project management software, another layer of systems.

Anything to slow the work down or divert it so less of it reaches you.

But the thing is, if the business keeps growing, things will keep speeding up. What used to be a manageable trickle of “work only I can do” becomes a flood. The “undelegatable” tasks take over your day.

And you’re back to throwing chocolates all over the place.

Why You Stay On The Doer Loop (Even Though You Know You Shouldn’t)

Now, look, I get it.

Every business needs to get things done; it needs marketing, it needs sales, it needs offers, it needs all of that.

Each of those requires decisions: the work gets done, it gets reviewed, it gets passed on to the next step, the work gets done, it gets reviewed, and so on.

I call this the Doer Loop:

Even if you manage to get AI agents doing most of the actual work, if you care at all about the quality of what goes out under your name and brand…

There are still points where a human needs to step in to do the final QA, to do the approval, to ensure it’s on-brand, and so on.

So the problem isn’t that the loop exists. It has to exist.

And what’s more, it feels good to work inside the loop.

Psychologists call this the Zeigarnik effect: open loops make us uncomfortable. They create a lot of mental noise, and it doesn’t get quiet until the loop is closed. So the tendency to answer the "quick question" isn’t really about the question; it’s because we believe it’s the only way to make the noise stop.

Not to mention, every time we close a loop, it feels like winning: a fast reply, a thumbs-up, a reassigned to-do — each one is a small, immediate, done thing.

Compare that to the actual business growth projects sitting untouched in your someday pile: slow, ambiguous, no finish line for weeks. Even if you want to do them, even if they excite you, the Doer Loop always wins because it pays out in ninety seconds.

The other thing pays out in a month, maybe, if it pays out at all.

But here’s the biggest thing:

The reason you end up in the Doer Loop isn’t because of the loop itself. It’s because you put yourself inside the loop by default.

Every Time the Doer Loop Shows Up, It's Because of This One Thing

So let’s go back to our analogy, and imagine you own a chocolate factory.

Every day on your way into work, you check what’s on your plan for the day. It says “you’re on conveyor belt duty.” So you go straight to the factory floor, put on your hairnet and your booties, walk over to the processing line, and one of two things happens.

Either:

• You start picking up chocolates and wrapping them, or

• You get in the way of the people who should be picking up the chocolates and wrapping them

And of course, that’s not cheap.

You’ve probably heard of $10,000/hr tasks vs $10/hr tasks, but if not, it goes something like this:

• There are things that you could pay someone else to do for $10/hr.

• There are other things that, if you were to pay someone else to do them, would cost $10,000/hr.

So, the idea goes, you should spend your time on the $10,000/hr tasks (not the $10/hr ones) — because every hour you spend on a $10/hr task is $9,990 down the drain.

But the math is actually a bit more nuanced than that, because most days you’re not just getting down into the Doer Loop and doing stuff. Your very presence on the line is actually getting in the way of the people who are supposed to be doing that work: waiting on your sign-off, asking questions or chatting you up “since you’re here anyway.”

Even if you only have 2 team members, and they only need ten minutes of your time twice a day, and that happens each day…

That adds up to 3+ hours of your team’s time that’s being spent managing you instead of making things happen.

Which means the choice to “just hop in for a minute” becomes a five-figure decision by the time you tally up a year of Mondays.

All because your plan for the week was built for a Doer — so when you looked at your calendar and it told you to walk down to the factory floor, you did.

Here's the Fast Way to Get Out of the Doer Loop

Most people plan their week by looking at what’s coming up.

And they do a separate weekly review where they evaluate what already happened, what got done, and what’s still outstanding.

But these shouldn’t be two separate activities; they should be two parts of the the same equation.

Enter the Weekly CEO Review. It differs from the traditional “weekly review” in three key ways:

1. It Predicts the Unpredictable

Rather than treating “what happened” and “what’s coming up” as separate things, the CEO Review bridges the gap.

The truth is, most “unpredictable” things are actually quite predictable. Chip and Dan Heath call this setting a tripwire — a pre-set condition that flags a problem while there's still time to act on it, instead of waiting to trip over it after the fact.

It’s just that we don’t stop to do the prediction, so we end up reacting:

A CEO Review changes this by explicitly connecting the dots between past performance and what needs attention this week.

That way, when you plan your week, you already know which project is at risk before the deadline forces your hand — meaning you can put time on the calendar for it now instead of dropping everything for it later.

2. It Works with the Week You Have

Another reason that the typical weekly review fails is that it’s paired with an idea that sounds great in theory: the model week.

(That’s where you dedicate the same block of time every week to the same type of work, so Monday mornings are for planning, Tuesday afternoons for client calls, etc.)

But a model week is, by definition, a fictional week: one where nothing comes up, energy is constant, and every week looks like the one before it. Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky called this the planning fallacy: it’s when we tend to plan as though the best-case version of events is the default, even though something almost always comes up.

It's not that model weeks are a bad idea. It's that they describe a week you don't actually have — and the gap between the model and the reality is exactly where you get pulled back into the Doer Loop.

3. It Pre-Fills The Important Work

Here’s the thing about empty space on your calendar: it doesn’t stay empty.

That open hour at 2pm on Thursday that you think you’ll spend mapping out next month’s marketing campaigns?

If it’s not actually set aside, you’re just as likely to get to 2pm and catch yourself saying "I just need to finish up one thing on this client project, and then I can get to it…”

Only to realize 45 minutes later that your quick “5-minute task”… wasn’t.

In my experience, there are three types of things that usually don’t make it onto your plan: time to delegate, time to work on creative projects, and time for the random stuff that always crops up.

But when you do a Weekly CEO Review, you’re reminded each week of what you could (or should) delegate, what your strategic priority is, and that not everything will go to plan…

Meaning that time for those things goes into your plan automatically, not when you think of it.

How One Client Turned the Doer Loop Into a Business That Runs Without Her

On the TV show, Lucy and Ethel never got off the line.

That’s the joke, actually. The belt just keeps speeding up until the scene cuts to commercial — chocolates still flying, both of them still stuffing their hats.

But that’s television.

In real businesses, it doesn’t have to be that way.

One of my favorite examples of this is Keila. A few years back, she’d hit the point where, in her own words, “I cannot take another phone call and I cannot answer another email. And so I wanted to love my work again. I wanted my life back.”

She’d already hired a team — and was still working 12-hour days anyway. More people just meant more people to manage. Hiring hadn’t gotten her off the conveyor belt; it had just put more people on it with her.

So she rebuilt how work reached her instead. Client questions stopped landing on her desk by default and started routing straight to whoever actually owned that part of the business. Her team started talking to each other instead of waiting on her.

But the thing I remember most was the day she did a Weekly CEO Review for the first time.

It was a Friday afternoon, and she was just completely overwhelmed.

We did the review together, and built her plan for the coming week. Then, we set up daily check-ins to make sure she had what she needed.

On Monday, the check-in was easy: everything was on track.

By Tuesday, she was shocked at how much she’d been able to get done.

And by Wednesday? She told me she didn’t need the daily check-ins any more, because of how much everything had already changed.

That’s what happens when you start planning your week like a CEO:

You still get to run the factory.

You just don’t have to work the line anymore.

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FAQs

Q: Isn’t this just a fancy to-do list?

No. A to-do list tells you all the things you could be doing; a Weekly CEO Review decides how much time and space you have available, what the priorities are, and who should be doing each piece.

The to-do list list is what’s left over after those decisions get made — it’s not the plan itself.

Q: I’ve tried weekly reviews before and always end up in the weeds. Why would this be different?

Most weekly reviews are look-backs: they ask what happened, not what to do about what’s coming. That’s useful information, but doesn’t change how you show up on a day-to-day basis.

A Weekly CEO Review starts with the assumption that your time should be spent like a leader not a doer — and fills in the rest from there.

Q: Not everything is predictable. What do I do then?

That’s what the flex block is for. Think of it as the release valve: the point in the week where the things you truly couldn’t predict go, so that it doesn’t fill up your strategic time.

Q: Do I need a big team for the delegate block to actually work?

No. Even if you have just one part-time VA, asking “could someone else do this?” every week is still worth it. It’s not about team size — it’s about whether the you’re asking the work before you take it back onto your plate by default.

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There’s the one you sent in the proposal; the one with the timelines, the milestones, the clean handoff dates.

And then there’s the one you actually ran; the one which had a stretch where the client went quiet for four days, a scope conversation that needed an extra round because nobody had said out loud what “final” meant, and a Tuesday where you rewrote the whole deliverable because you’d spotted an edge case nobody had asked about.

Most service providers treat that gap — the one between the plan you wrote and the project that actually happened — as a failure.

And because we, as service providers, happen to really care about our clients… we go into overdrive to fix it. Our boundaries take a backseat to delivering for the client, all the while longer hours, rescheduled family time, and extra-late-night heroics become the price we pay time and time again. Because somewhere along the way, we learned that’s just what a good service provider does.

Because the thing is, plans never go exactly to plan. Even when you’ve got strong policies, even when you’ve done it a million times… there’s always something that comes up at some point in every project, for every provider.

The real question is never whether something will get in the way…

It’s whether you figured out ahead of time what you’d do, when it does.

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Why the Plan Falling Apart Isn’t the Problem

Look, I’m a planner at heart; the kind of person that creates policies and procedures for fun.

And still every proposal I’ve ever written promised a version of the project that never quite happened.

Oh, the outcome still happened. The deliverables promised, the timelines outlined, the milestones mapped out — those were all met.

But the way it happened? Never quite worked out the way I thought it would when I wrote the thing.

Sometimes it was because of me: I’d end up three days deep into a “quick fix” that was never actually in scope, because I noticed something broken and couldn’t leave it alone.

Sometimes it was because of the client: they go dark for a week because their own life blew up, and the feedback I needed on day four showed up on day eleven.

Sometimes it was neither of us: geopolitics, a worldwide pandemic, or just finding random chunks of asphalt scattered a foot deep all across the backyard in the midst of a landscaping project. (And no, that last one is not hypothetical. 🤣)

No matter the reason, though, the simple fact is that my perfect project plan was never actually perfect.

I used to think this meant my plans needed to be tighter: less room to manoeuvre, more specificity, more details, more policies.

But every time I tried, the more edge cases slipped through.

None of that means the plan was bad; it just means the plan was a plan. And whether it’s a project plan for a client, or the quarterly plans you can’t quite seem to stick to… the solution isn’t a more perfect plan.

It’s to accept that plan is flawed from the beginning.

Scope Creep Is A Growing Issue (It’s Not Just You)

Now, it’d be easy to chalk this up to being about me (or about you). To say we don’t communicate as well as others, or that we just have more of a tendency to get pulled away by shiny objects than others.

And that may be true.

But before we throw up our hands and blame ourselves, let’s look at some statistics:

Scope creep alone now affects roughly 52% of projects — up from 43% five years earlier.

Here’s what that actually costs you.

Say you run 10 client projects this month. At 52%, that’s 5 or 6 of them hitting scope creep at some point.

Now let’s be conservative about what each of those incidents actually costs — not the extra deliverable itself, just the scrambling.

The renegotiating, the “wait, is this in scope” conversation you never budgeted time for.

Call it half a day. Four hours, unbilled, per incident.

5 incidents × 4 hours = 20 hours a month, gone to firefighting you never quoted for.

At $200/hour — a modest rate for most agencies and professionals — that’s $4,000 a month. Not from bad projects; from normal ones.

And that’s before you’ve counted a single dollar of the actual scope-creep work itself. Just the cost of reacting to it in the moment instead of already knowing what you’d do.

“But my numbers are different.”

Fine. Cut it in half.

4 projects a month, 2 hit scope creep, and each one costs 2 hours, not 4.

2 incidents × 2 hours = 4 hours. At $200/hour, that’s $800.

Still real money, still recurring every month, and still doesn’t take into account the intangibles of stress, the extra work of doing the thing, or the headaches of having to shift everything else around to address it.

Zoom out to the industry’s own benchmark for finishing clean, and the picture gets worse, not better. In the Standish Group’s long-running CHAOS research on software and IT projects, only 29% land on time, on budget, AND with the full scope intact.

Or put another way: more than seven projects out of ten miss on at least one of those three, even in an industry that measures this obsessively.

Now, I don’t know about you, but when the math says this is normal, common, and getting more frequent, not less —

Yeah. That tells me the problem isn’t me. And it’s probably not you.

Because if something like scope creep is so common that it still impacts the majority of projects… that means that projects that go to plan aren’t the rule.

They’re the exception.

The Three Types of Plans (And Which One Works Best)

What most people don’t realize is that there are many ways to make a plan — and I’m not talking about following this specific methodology or that.

I’m talking on a psychological level; how we actually psychologically prepare for the plans as we make them.

See, most people make an action plan: a list of what to do and when.

This morning, I need to have breakfast, go for a walk, and get some work done.

And it works. When Sheila Orbell and Paschal Sheeran tracked patients recovering from joint replacement surgery, they noticed that patients who had pre-decided when and where they’d do their rehab activities started them sooner.

But that’s just the most basic level of making a plan; psychologists call this an action plan.

The next level is to make what’s called an implementation intention; an if-then plan that includes both a trigger and an action.

If I have finished breakfast, then it’s time to go for a walk. If I get home from my walk, then that means it’s time to start work.

This “if-then” framing, according to a 2006 meta-analysis by Gollwitzer and Sheeran, is significantly more likely to result in success. Simply by having triggers in place, you’re essentially more likely to follow-through.

But the third type of plan is the one that matters most when it comes to getting projects done despite obstacles arising, and it’s called a coping plan.

How Cardiac Patients Rehab Faster

Here’s a classic example of a coping plan:

Falko Sniehotta and colleagues tracked 211 cardiac rehabilitation patients recovering through a prescribed exercise program. Some were given an action plan only — when and where they’d exercise. Others were given that plus a coping plan: a specific answer to a specific obstacle, the “if it rains, I use the treadmill instead” kind of plan.

Two months after discharge, the group with both plans was exercising significantly more than the group with the action plan alone.

They had the same rehab needs, the same motivation to do the rehab, and the same action items. The only difference is whether obstacles — like the potential for rain — had already been planned for.

The truth is, providers who always ship on time aren’t just lucky. They’re not getting thrown fewer curveballs with easier clients and cleaner scopes, and they’re not always better at spotting the red flags, keeping themselves on track, or working through the mess when something breaks.

Their clients go quiet, too. Their own brains take them off track. And they end up with unforeseen problems all the time.

What’s different is what happens when those curveballs show up: they already know what they’re doing about it, because they decided it before the project ever started — not during it.

In other words, they’re making coping plans.

The Three Places Every Obstacle Actually Comes From

So where do these obstacles actually come from?

In my experience, every single one falls into one of three buckets: you (or your team), the client, or something external to you both.

None of the three is particularly rare; any project that runs long enough will hit some version of at least one — usually more.

The good news is that since we know where the obstacles are likely to come from, we can more effectively make coping plans to deal with them.

Coping Plan #1: Obstacles From You (Or Your Team)

This is the type of obstacle that you think you should be able to avoid:

The family illness that takes all your focus for three days, the extra revision you offered before anyone asked for it, the scope that quietly expanded because saying “that’s actually a new project” felt more awkward than just doing the thing.

The thing is, imagining you’ll just be able to avoid these things means you’re assuming you’ll be able to work overtime to fix it when you can’t.

It’s not a very kind way to treat your future self.

And if you’ve got a team, it’s the same pattern one layer removed — life happens, or they get pulled into a rabbit hole, or they take on more than the brief called for, because it felt like the right thing to do in the moment.

You could assume nothing will go wrong, and then jump into firefighting mode yourself when it starts to blow up. Or, you could plan for it, figure out how you’ll handle it ahead of time, and roll with the punches when it does.

Coping Plan #2: Obstacles From The Client

This is the type of obstacle you tell yourself you need to address with better policies, better scoping, better communication:

• The client who goes dark mid-project, giving no response to the email that was supposed to unblock the next phase.

• The feedback that was due on day four, showing up on day eleven — too vague to do anything with.

• The client whose own priorities shift, so the thing you scoped three weeks ago isn’t the thing they need anymore.

The thing is, your clients have lives. They are human. And they have other things going on aside from your project. Assuming your clients will always be responsive means you’re also assuming you’ll never have to have an awkward conversation about a missed deadline — or that you’ll just quietly absorb the delay yourself, so the client never even has to know it happened.

And that’s not fair to either of you.

You could wait and hope they respond before it becomes a real problem, then scramble to explain a delay you didn’t see coming. Or, you could plan for it, and already know exactly what happens the moment the date passes without a word.

Coping Plan #3: Obstacles From Outside

And then there’s the bucket that has nothing to do with you:

A platform your whole project depends on changing its rules two weeks before launch. A regional outage that takes your Internet down for two days straight, along with everyone else’s on your street. A subcontractor who has always been reliable in the past inexplicably missed their own deadline — which is now, somehow, yours to explain.

The thing is, assuming the world will leave your project alone means you’re betting that you will be the one person that isn’t affected when things go wrong.

That’s not a bet worth making.

You could wait for the surprise to hit and then scramble to squeeze it into your already-full schedule. Or, you could plan for it, and already know what you’ll do the moment something outside your control gets in the way.

It’s the same idea as behind planning your week against your real capacity instead of an idealized one — you’re not scheduling the version of you with infinite bandwidth, you’re scheduling the version whose week occasionally gets hit by something nobody could’ve predicted.

What Changes When You’ve Already Decided What You’ll Do

These days, I always hit my deadlines.

Not because I work overtime, or because I’ve got perfect predictive powers.

I still run into obstacles. My brain still chases rabbits, clients still have life happen, team members get sick.

But now that I’ve built my entire life around assuming things will get in the way, I’m no longer scrambling when they do.

Because the instinct is to treat a missed deadline as proof that we did something wrong, and therefore we need to fix it.

In reality, it usually just means something happened, and now, it’s time to adjust.

And you can choose to adjust in the moment — by pushing harder, working later, or jumping in with both hands to fix it yourself. Or, you can choose to adjust ahead of time — giving yourself the grace to not expect yourself to put yourself through the wringer just to save yourself.

Especially for those of us socialized as women, this can be hard to do.

We’re taught that it’s our job to pick up the pieces. To handle when things go wrong. To sacrifice our own energy, our own time, our own well-being to make sure everyone else stays happy.

Choosing, ahead of time, that you won’t play that game takes courage.

It’s standing up and saying, “No, I won’t put myself last.”

And it’s what keeps your projects on track, without sacrificing yourself to get there.

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FAQ

Q: What if I can't predict which obstacle is actually going to show up on this project?

Many obstacles are predictable: it’s flu season, so someone’s likely to get sick. If it’s the middle of Summer, so you’re going to experience rolling blackouts.

But if every obstacle was predictable, then you’d be back to being able to build a perfect plan. So rather than trying to build a perfect set of obstacles, focus on what you can imagine would come up.

Over time, you’ll build a library of potential obstacles which will get close-enough to complete.

Q: Doesn’t this just mean I’m expecting things to go wrong?

It’s less about expecting to go wrong, and more about not expecting yourself to be able to come up with a great solution the moment an obstacle arrives. Planning for delays or distractions isn’t pessimism. It’s about saving your brain and your energy to deal with whatever comes, rather than trying to figure that out and solve it all at once.

Q: Should the client know I've planned for their potential delays?

Absolutely. Put it in the kickoff conversation, framed as normal project logistics, so that the if-then is clear to them ahead of time. "If I haven't heard back by [date], I'll check in once and keep moving on the next piece" is the same kind of housekeeping as confirming a payment schedule… and clients generally respond better to a provider who's already got an answer than one who's improvising a follow-up email three days after they went quiet.

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I’d sit down at my laptop, intending to work on my next big project: my new sales page, map out the next marketing campaign, or redesign our onboarding funnel. Nothing else to do, nothing else fighting for my attention.

A couple hours later, I’d look up having checked my inbox, my Facebook feed (three times), and watched about fifteen reels on Instagram of talking cats…

And written exactly zero words of what I was supposed to have done.

It’s not that I was avoiding the work, exactly. It wasn’t even intentional.

It’s just that before I actually got into the thing I was supposed to be doing, my brain had already wandered off in fifteen different directions. It’s like my fingers had a life of their own, and they just opened a Facebook tab before I could even catch up.

Now, I know all the advice:

• Leave a sentence half-finished, so you can jump right back in

• Write down a detailed checklist of steps to start with

• Run Pomodoros so you have time pressure to force you to start right now

• Put the link to the document you need, right into your calendar entry

That last one helped a bit, for what it’s worth.

But the others? They almost made it worse, because my brain would see those lists, go immediately into “But I don’t wanna!” mode, and refuse to come back out.

And so the project would sit untouched, sometimes for hours. Sometimes for days.

Over time, I’ve learned that this actually isn’t that uncommon.

But more importantly, it’s something you can make a lot easier for yourself, if you stop to put three ingredients in place, first.

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Why Your Brain Keeps Rewarding You for the Wrong Work

Before I dive into the solution, I think it’s worthwhile to take a few minutes to explore why this happens.

Most people blame it on “procrastination” or “resistance,” but honestly, I don’t find those terribly helpful. That may be how it shows up, but unless you know the root cause, you can’t actually make the structural changes that overcome them.

And in this case? It all comes back to a little hormone called dopamine.

The dopamine odds are never in your favor

Whenever you do or experience something worth celebrating, dopamine is released into your system.

And our brains love dopamine. They’re the brain’s happy juices.

So that little flourish of joy you get when you check things off your list? That’s dopamine doing its thing.

But the thing is, dopamine doesn’t care if the thing you checked off was important. It just cares that it’s done.

So the faster you can get more things done? The happier your brain is.

No, it’s not actually a focus problem

Here’s where we need to be careful, though, because the usual advice — do a Pomodoro, minimize distractions, just start with something — is missing what’s actually going on.

Because most of the people who I’ve worked with over the years can absolutely hyperfocus for hours on something that captures them.

The problem isn’t that you can’t focus.

The problem is that growth work doesn’t trigger dopamine fast enough, or reliably enough.

And your brain knows it.

ADHDers in particular are literally predisposed to do the quick, easy thing. Your brain is already low on dopamine, so it’s seeking out the fastest, most reliable hit it can find.

☑️ Check email? Dopamine.
☑️ Organize some files? Dopamine.
☑️ Respond to a couple DMs? Dopamine

On the flip side, when you’re doing something that doesn’t give a quick and easy dopamine hits, your brain literally registers it as unsatisfying — and starts scanning for something better to do instead.

So no, your brain isn’t choosing email over strategy because email is more interesting.

It’s choosing email because checking email provides a faster, more reliable path to dopamine.

The 3-5 Hours You Lose To Deciding Every Week

So dopamine is partly to blame.

But the other thing we need to address? Is the gap between “I should really work on X” and … well, actually working on X.

Most of us are probably already aware of the high cost of context switching.

If you’re not: it takes about 23 minutes to fully re-engage after switching tasks, which is why it costs the average knowledge worker just under four hours a week in reorientation time alone.

But there’s an even more insidious drain underneath that stat — one that adds up even faster.

Where your time actually goes — 5 minutes here, 10 minutes there

In my experience working with service providers over the past decade or more: most founders lose roughly 3 to 5 hours a week, just re-deciding what to work on.

Not to the work itself — to the moment before the work. The “wait, what am I actually supposed to be doing right now?” pause that happens at the start of every unplanned session.

Five minutes figuring out where the growth work is. Ten minutes re-reading last week’s notes to remember what you were in the middle of. Another five minutes deciding whether THIS is actually the right thing to start or whether you should finish the other thing first. A few more minutes, scattered, after an interruption breaks the thread and you have to re-find your place.

None of it shows up on the calendar as “lost time.” It just … leaks. Every session, some piece of available attention goes into starting from zero again.

Over a full week, for a founder managing multiple things?

That’s three to five hours, on top of the four you already spent on context switching.

The equivalent of a full work day on hours that felt like work, but produced nothing.

The Hidden Tax For ND Brains

But the time isn’t even the whole story.

Because on top of the time there’s also the executive function cost.

See, every time you sit down to growth work without a pre-decided next action, your first move is a planning task.

Which means you need to bring the whole context back into working memory… figure out what stage you’re at… decide what comes next… and THEN start.

For ADHD and AuDHD brains — where working memory is often already running at reduced capacity — that’s not a small cost. And that’s assuming you’re well resourced coming into the day.

On a day when you’re already running close to empty? You’ll have nothing left by the time you figure it out.

Which is why, by the time you’ve reconstructed the context and figured out the next step, you’re depleted enough that the inbox sounds reasonable.

So those are the two things we need to contend with, every time we want to do some big strategic work:

1. The heavy load of executive planning and figuring out what we even should be working on, and

2. The need for a clear outcome to gets your dopamine-driven brain excited to dive in

As for how we do that, there are three key things to focus on:

Key #1: A Current Experiment (Not a Someday Intention)

Most founders I work with don’t have a shortage of ideas about what could grow the business. They have too many, which means none of them feels more “obviously right” than the others.

And the problem with having seven reasonable options is that the brain goes into a low-grade decision loop every time growth work should happen:

Which one is it? Is this the right one? What if I should’ve done the other thing first?

The loop uses up all your brain power before you’ve even begun.

The solution is to pick one experiment to run at a time. Not one that you’ll focus on forever, and not even necessarily the right one.

Just one that will end the loop.

Remember, the goal is to help your brain pre-commit to a specific next action — but it can only do that if there’s one priority you’re focused on. Two experiments don’t give you twice the progress — they give you twice the re-deciding.

What makes a current experiment vs. a good idea

And speaking of a specificity, that’s also a hallmark of a current experiment as opposed to a good idea:

A good idea sounds like: “I should focus on growing my audience.”

Whereas a current experiment is more like: “I’m running a LinkedIn content test for the next six weeks — two posts per week — to see if it generates inbound DMs from qualified leads.”

The first one is a general, hand-wavy direction. Your brain doesn’t know what to do with it — not without spending a ton of executive function to try to parse it out. You sit down on Tuesday morning and have to reconstruct the whole project in your head, before you can get started.

But an experiment is a specific set of testable actions with a hypothesis attached, and it makes Tuesday morning so much easier. “Write the third post in the LinkedIn test — the one about the thing I noticed in last week’s discovery call” requires almost nothing to start, other than to dive in.

Plus, the dopamine loop in the latter case is so much shorter. You have a specific experiment, with specific actions, which means your brain gets a dose of happy juices much more regularly.

Without that specificity, checking your email will always have a short completion loop. With it, your growth projects have one, too.

Key 2: Pre-Committed Time (Not Found Time)

Raise your hand if you’ve ever said, “I just need to find the time for it.”

🙋🏼

(^^that’s me, raising my hand)

Now, raise your hand if “finding” time has proven to be a reliable strategy for you.

It’s okay, I’ll wait.

No?

Yeah, me neither.

Because found time comes with no conditions attached. So when a meeting cancels and an hour opens up, you think, “Perfect, I’ll use this for the important stuff.”

Except there’s nothing waiting in it. Which means you’re left trying to remember where you left off, so you can figure out what to do with this hour... meanwhile, your body’s on autopilot and you’ve already opened up Facebook and started scrolling.

And then the hour’s gone.

Or the flip side happens: you block the time in advance, but it’s squished in between everything else: after the calls, before the admin, in between whatever else feels urgent. Wherever it seems like it fits.

But it never does. Something always goes over, or an emergency comes up — and the growth block loses every time.

What actually changes when you pre-commit

Like most ND people I know, I have a saying: “If it’s not on my calendar, it doesn’t exist.”

So it’s perhaps no surprise that my solution to the problem of “never having the time” is to put the time on the calendar.

But that’s only part of it.

I found that if I schedule the exact time slot — say, for example, I’m going to work on this project from 9:30am - 10:30am — then it was easy for it to get pushed to the side. Inevitably, a client needed something, a meeting ran long, or I had finally got started on the copy for that week’s email newsletter and if I stop now, who knows when I’ll actually be able to get back to it.

So by the millionth time that happened, I did something that seems like it should absolutely not work, but turns out to actually be the only thing that did:

I pre-decided on three priorities for the day; for example, my morning meetings was one, the email I needed to write was another, and working on my big project was the third.

And then… I just focused on doing those three things, in whatever order they happened.

That little bit of agency was enough to combat the demand avoidance. It gave me the flexibility to do the other things I needed to do, without being strict about how long they should take (because I don’t know about you, but I can never predict how long something will take — chalk it up to time blindness).

And — most crucially — it made sure that the priority was there, on my calendar, so that I didn’t have to spend energy trying to figure out “what to work on next.”

Key #3: A Specific Outcome For The Session (Not I’ll Figure It Out”)

So you’ve got the experiment. You’ve got the time on the calendar.

You sit down.

And then...

Well, we still haven’t fixed the long dopamine cycle problem, yet, have we?

Which is why you can have a growth project, and even have precommitted time to it… and still end up staring at the thing calendar — “work on LinkedIn content,” “growth project,” whatever you called it — and wondering where to start.

This is because “work on LinkedIn content” isn’t an outcome. It’s a process. And the prospect of doing a process (which by definition, does not have an ending) does not give you the dopamine hit you’re looking for.

What you need is something completable. A chunk of work you’re going to do; a milestone you’re going to reach.

What “completable” actually looks like

The way I think about it: a completable outcome is what you’ll be able to hold up at the end of the session and say “yes, that’s done.”

Not “I worked on it.” Done.

Which means the first question to ask isn’t “what do I want to work on?” It’s “what does done look like?”

Personally, I like to map this out when I’m planning the project in the first place. Every project gets broken down into 3-5 chunks, each of which ends with a specific deliverable that I can point to.

With the LinkedIn example, the first chunk might be to create the strategy doc. The second would be to produce 3 pieces of content and schedule them. The third would be to produce another 3 pieces of content and schedule them. And so on.

The point is that each chunk ends with something specific that I can point to and say, “Yeah, I did that thing.”

Then, when it comes to planning out my week, all I need to do is the next chunk from my plan.

When It Works, It Works

Let’s be real: I still find myself sitting in front of the laptop, two hours deep into talking cat reels.

But it’s no longer at the cost of the work I should be doing.

Because once I started seeing how this worked — how putting outcomes on the calendar as pre-scheduled commitments hacks the dopamine loop — I started applying it everywhere.

Not just to my growth work, but to the client work, the admin stuff, the marketing... all of it.

And because I’m not spending five or ten minutes each time I switch tasks on deciding, deliberating, and doomscrolling before I can get started… because I’m not rebuilding context from scratch every session… because I’m not negotiating with myself about what comes first.

That’s given me 5-10 hours a week back.

Which means I finish work earlier. I have more actual free time.

And I do more of the work that grows the business — not less — because growth work isn’t fighting for scraps at the end of the day anymore.

Yes, please.

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FAQ

Q: What if I truly can’t choose just one experiment? Everything feels equally important.

Pick anyway. Until you’ve run the experiment, you can’t know if it’s the right one anyway.

That’s why the important thing isn’t to choose the right experiment, it’s to make sure you have one chosen ahead of time so that when the time comes, you’re not trying to decide.

There will always be time to test the next experiment, after.

Q: My Top 3 is set but I wake up and don’t want to do any of it. Now what?

Look, demand avoidance is a real thing. That’s why the Top 3 isn’t meant to lock you into a rigid sequence. So ask yourself: which of these three things would I rather tackle first? Just reframing the question can make a world of difference.

Q: I do my best thinking in the afternoon. Does growth work still have to go first?

Nope. If your brain is sharpest at 2pm, put growth work into your first afternoon block. The principle isn’t about the time of day; it’s about making sure growth work isn’t what’s left over after everything else has taken what it needs.

Q: How do I know if my chunks are small enough?

If you can sit down and start without making another decision first, the chunk is probably right. If you get to the block and still have to figure out what exactly done looks like — it’s still too big. Break it down until the answer to “what do I do right now?” is obvious before you even open the laptop.

Q: I’ve tried all keys three and I’m still ending up on email. What am I missing?

Usually one of the three isn’t actually in place. The experiment might be decided but not specific enough (“grow my audience” isn’t an experiment). The time might be blocked, but it doesn’t have a specific outcome attached to it. Or the chunk might be there but too large to start without deciding. Run through each one and ask honestly: is this actually in place, or does it just feel like it is?

Q: What if I can tell at week 2 that my experiment isn’t working? Do I have to wait the full six weeks?

No — but before you cancel it, be honest about whether it’s actually not working. Have you given it enough time to generate real data? Have you actually done the things you said you were going to, to produce the results?

If you’ve truly run the experiment and the results are telling you something clear, trust that. If you’re uncomfortable with the uncertainty, that’s different. The six weeks is a guide, not a rule.

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I love a good spreadsheet.

I mean... I LOVE a good spreadsheet. The kind with color-coded tabs, conditional formatting, maybe a couple of formulas that auto-calculate things I’ll never actually look at. Give me a fresh Google Sheet and 45 minutes and I will build you a tracking system so beautiful it belongs in a museum.

And then I’ll never open it again. Meanwhile, the chaos around me mounts.

If you’re anything like me, you know exactly what I’m talking about. That rush of setting up the perfect tracking system... followed by the quiet reality that it doesn’t actually change anything about how you run your business.

Now, I know I’m not the one that has built a half-dozen tracking systems with so much enthusiasm that by the time it’s done, you’ve used up all the executive function they had available... and there’s nothing left for actually DOING the work the KPIs are supposed to measure.

Sound familiar?

So let’s talk about it.

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Why Tracking Everything Feels Productive but Isn’t

My brain does not automatically distinguish between “setting up a system to do the work” and “doing the work that matters.”

As much as I know they’re different, the truth is both feel productive. Both give me that little hit of satisfaction. Both let me tell myself at the end of the day, “I worked on my business today.”

But being busy isn’t the same as moving the business forward.

The thing is, for me (and a lot of people like me), the setup IS the most engaging part. It’s novel, it’s creative, and it’s got that beautiful combination of structure and possibility that lights up my brain like nothing else.

Building the dashboard? Thrilling.

Checking the dashboard every week and making decisions based on what it says? Um… maybe not.

So we end up with a gorgeous system that nobody uses. And then we feel guilty about it. And then we build a NEW system, because maybe THIS one will be the one that sticks...

Round and round and round we go.

Decision fatigue by dashboard

But let’s say you DO check the dashboard.

On it, you’ve got 15 different metrics you’re watching: website traffic, email open rates, social engagement, pipeline value, close rate, client satisfaction, referral rate, content output, ad spend ROI...

Now it’s Monday morning. You’re looking at 15 numbers.

Some are up. Some are down. Some are sideways and you’re not sure what that means.

Which one do you act on?

Because here’s the thing about working memory: it holds about 3 to 5 things at a time, at best. That’s the neurotypical baseline. And roughly 75-81% of people with ADHD have measurable working memory deficits on top of that.

So that dashboard is effectively asking a brain that can comfortably juggle 3 things... to look at 15 numbers and decide which ones matter this week.

Hello, decision fatigue.

And so you either pick the one that feels most urgent (which is rarely the most important)…

… or you feel so overwhelmed by the number of things that COULD need attention that you close the spreadsheet and go answer emails instead.

The simplest version is the one that actually gets used

Now, I’m not sure where this idea came from, but there’s this idea out there that wanting fewer metrics is somehow... less serious. Like being a real CEO means having a 47-tab Notion dashboard with real-time integrations and a morning ritual involving a $400 espresso machine and a meditation on their OKRs.

Okay, maybe that’s overstating it a bit… but honestly, in my experience? Not by much.

So let me give it to you straight:

The best tracking system isn’t the most comprehensive one. It’s the one you actually use.

And for most of us, the system we’ll actually use is the one that tells us what to do.

Not with 15 metrics. Not even 8. As few as possible, while still telling us what we need to know.

The question is: what DO we need to know?

The KPI That Tells You Where to Look When Things Break

Now, most people treat KPIs like a report card.

End of the month, you look at your numbers. Revenue was up? Good month. Revenue was down? Bad month. Client count grew? A+. Client count flat? Try harder next time.

And that’s... not useless, exactly. But it’s not useful either. Because a report card tells you HOW you did. It doesn’t tell you what to DO about it.

Think about it. You get to the end of the month and revenue was down 20%. Okay. Now what?

Was it because you didn’t get in front of enough new people? Was it because you had plenty of leads but nobody booked a call? Was it because people booked calls but didn’t close? Was it because your pricing changed and you need fewer clients but the pipeline hasn’t adjusted?

“Revenue was down” is a fact. It’s not a diagnosis.

And without a diagnosis, you can’t treat the problem. You just feel bad about the number and vaguely resolve to “do more” next month.

What a diagnostic KPI actually does

See, a diagnostic KPI works differently.

Instead of telling you how you did overall, it tells you WHERE the breakdown is happening.

Let me give you an example:

I was working with one of our VisionaryOS users recently, and she was going through our KPI builder. She’s got a consulting practice where clients come in through a qualifying quiz on her website. People who qualify get invited to a diagnostic assessment. If they want to move forward after that, they do a scope chat where they pick their offer format. Then she sends a proposal.

In other words: new people hear about her → they take the quiz → qualified ones book an assessment → some move to a scope chat → some of those sign an agreement.

Now, if she just tracked “revenue” or “new clients this month,” she’d know if things were good or bad. But she wouldn’t know why.

That’s where KPIs come in.

• Not enough signed agreements? Look at the scope chats. Are people showing up but not closing? Then the issue is in the scope chat itself — maybe the offer framing, maybe the pricing, maybe the follow-up.

• Scope chats are fine but there aren’t enough of them? Then look one step earlier. Are enough people completing the assessment? If yes, then the assessment-to-scope-chat handoff is broken. If no, then the problem is upstream of the assessment.

Each KPI points to a specific place to look. That’s the difference between a scorecard full of useless number, and a diagnostic tool you can act on.

The “What Would You DO With That Info” Test

Here’s the simplest filter I’ve found for whether a KPI is worth tracking:

If this number drops, would I know what to fix?

If the answer is yes — if a drop in that number points me to a specific part of my business where I can investigate and take action — it’s a real KPI.

If the answer is “I’d feel bad and try harder”... it’s a vanity metric. It might feel important. It might look impressive on a dashboard. But it’s not telling you what to DO.

Revenue by itself? Not diagnostic. Revenue broken into the stages that produce it? Now you’ve got something.

And the fewer stages you’re tracking, the faster you can scan them and know where to look.

That’s what your weekly check-in is for; a quick pass through your stages to see what’s green, what’s yellow, what’s red. Six decisions, not sixty.

But there’s a second question that’s equally important:

“Would you actually take action based on what it’s telling you?”

There’s a difference between “theoretically this data could be useful” and “I would actually change my behavior based on this number.”

And that’s where most metrics fall apart. You can track something — even the right something — but if you wouldn’t do the action that the KPI tells you to take, then it’s actually worse than tracking nothing at all.

Because every metric you track isn’t just a number — it’s a maintenance task. A thing you have to do and a system you have to keep running, and that uses up precious executive function.

So if a KPI doesn’t immediately lead you to an action that you will actually take?

Cut it.

Because there’s no point in spending your energy on things that won’t go anywhere.

You Can’t Count Raindrops (So Don’t Try)

But there’s one more thing you need to bear in mind before you decide what metrics to track and it’s best illustrated with an example.

My VisionaryOS user — the one with the quiz and the scope chats — came back to me half an hour later, having matched most everything to its KPIs.

And then she got to the top of the funnel and hit a wall.

“I don’t really have a place that’s tracking everyone who comes into my orbit,” she said.

Her CRM tracks potential connections. Her quiz captures qualified leads. But “new people who heard about me for the first time”? There’s no system for that. There’s no inbox where first impressions land.

And her first instinct was: “Maybe I should rethink my system.”

But that’s not actually the problem.

Because trying to track “how many people heard about me” is like trying to count raindrops. You can’t. Not reliably, and definitely not without building an entire measurement infrastructure that costs more executive function than it’s worth.

The better question to answer

I asked her: how DO new people hear about you?

Her answer was a mix of things: Podcasts. Speaking engagements. Workshops. High-visibility articles. Connector intros. People landing on her website.

A bunch of different roads, but ultimately, she said, the her best leads all ended up taking the quiz at some point.

So I told her: you don’t need to measure how many people heard about you. You just need to know how many times you told new people to go take that quiz.

Regardless of the form — whether it was podcast pitches, requests for introductions, speaking proposals, or messages sent to connectors— every action she took that would result in more people taking the quiz?

They’re all ways of putting herself in front of new people.

And even more importantly, they don’t require her to do the exact same things every single week. Because one week focusing on podcast pitches and another being on networking calls are both valid actions that count.

The Point of All of This

Look, I know what it’s like to sit down on a low-EF morning, open your laptop, and feel the weight of a business that needs SOMETHING from you... but you can’t figure out what.

Everything looks like it might be urgent. Nothing looks like it’s obviously the thing. And the longer you sit there trying to sort through it, the less capacity you have to actually do anything about it.

That’s the morning KPIs are built for.

Not the morning where you’re sharp and caffeinated and ready to strategize. That morning, you don’t need a system. You’ll figure it out.

It’s the other morning. The one where your brain is foggy and your energy is low and you need your business to TELL you what needs you — because you don’t have the bandwidth to go looking.

You look at your KPIs and ask: “did I send 5 outreach requests this week?”

That’s a yes or a no. You either did it or you didn’t. There’s no ambiguity, no lag, no waiting for the world to respond.

Green means you did the thing. Red means you didn’t. And when it’s red, you know EXACTLY what to do about it.

Not “your awareness metrics are trending downward” (which sounds important but tells you nothing about what to do tomorrow morning)

Instead: “you sent 2 requests this week instead of 5.”

Okay. Send more.

That’s a KPI your brain can actually use. Not one that grades you; one that points you toward an action.

No detective work. No digging through dashboards. No “let me figure out what’s going wrong.”

The numbers do that part for you.

And on the days where that’s the difference between doing something and doing nothing?

That’s what matters.

FAQ

Q: How many KPIs should I actually track?

I recommend tracking six; one for each stage of your business’ Core Process: Generating Demand, Identifying Prospects, Invite Leads, Converting Buyers, Engaging Clients, and Clients Making Progress.

Q: What if I genuinely can’t figure out what to measure for one of the stages?

Start with what you control. If you can’t measure “how many new people heard about me,” measure “how many things did I do to get in front of new people.” The activity-based version is almost always trackable, even when the outcome isn’t. And it’s usually more actionable anyway — because it tells you what to DO, not what happened. Or go use our KPI Wizard, which will tell you the answer for free.

Q: Should I track rates (like conversion rate) or raw numbers?

Raw numbers, almost always. Rates are useful for diagnosis (if your close rate drops from 50% to 20%, that tells you something), but your weekly KPI should be a raw number you can act on. “I need 3 scope chats this week” is actionable. “I need a 40% conversion rate” is not; you can’t control a rate directly.

Q: My business has multiple offers. Do I need separate KPIs for each one?

Ideally, no. If all your offers funnel through the same sales process, you can track it all once. If they have genuinely different pipelines — different audiences, different entry points, different close mechanisms — then yes, each one has its own Core Process. But be honest about how many offers you’re actually running, because every one means 6 more numbers to track, and your working memory has limits.

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By coaches. By peers. By that voice in my own head that sounds suspiciously like every business podcast I listened to between 2018 and 2022.

And here’s the thing... they’re not wrong. Not exactly.

Revenue IS tied to consistency. If you’re not showing up, not making offers, not following through on the stuff that actually generates income... yeah, it’s going to stall.

But “be more consistent” as advice? That’s where it falls apart.

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Why “Be More Consistent” Is a Misdiagnosis, Not Bad Advice

Now, let’s give the advice its due.

When someone says “be more consistent,” they’re usually pointing at a bunch of real symptoms:

Revenue that’s unpredictable, a pipeline that dries up every time you stop actively marketing, and client work that takes over and leaves zero room for the stuff that brings in the next client.

That’s a real thing.

And the logic seems sound: if you were more consistent with your marketing, your outreach, your content, your sales... the revenue would stabilize. Right?

Except that logic skips a step: a big one.

It assumes the problem is that you’re not doing enough. That somewhere between your morning coffee and your last Slack message, there’s a gap where consistency should be — and you’re just... not filling it.

Why the diagnosis is wrong

If you’re anything like me, the actual problem isn’t inconsistency.

It’s that you’re spreading the consistency you do have across too many things.

Because I am not the type to sit around doing nothing. I’ve been the person posting on three platforms, running two different offers while experimenting with a third, and also managing a client delivery process, a community, a podcast, an email list...

And so, yes. I was incredibly consistent. At about twenty things simultaneously.

Which means I wasn’t actually consistent at any one of them… because I was simply spread too thin.

How “be more consistent” sends you back to doing more

Here’s the cycle. You’ll recognize it:

You hear “be more consistent.” You nod. You recommit. You tell yourself THIS time, you’ll post every day, follow up with every lead, send the newsletter weekly, update the funnel, batch your content...

And for two weeks, you do. Maybe three. You know how it goes.

Then something breaks. A client emergency. A low-energy week. Your brain just... doesn’t cooperate.

And instead of asking “was my plan realistic?” you ask “what’s wrong with me?”

Try harder. Burn out. Feel guilty. Try harder again. Burn out again.

What a correct diagnosis changes

On the flip side, when you stop diagnosing the problem as “not enough consistency” and start diagnosing it as “too many things to be consistent WITH,” you can start to find new solutions.

You stop asking “how do I do more?” and start asking “how many things am I actually trying to keep alive right now?”

And then... you count them.

And the number is almost always horrifying.

I remember back when I was actively coaching folks, a client came to us saying she was exhausted all the time, and just couldn’t find a way to be more consistent with the things she knew she had been doing.

Her number?

Was 34.

34 different offers. Each of which had to be marketed, sold, delivered, maintained…

It was a lot.

The Multiplication Problem (aka why you have 120 links to manage, not just 6)

Because, you see, hitting your revenue goals is not just about a number that you hit or miss. It’s not a binary signal: success or failure, good month or bad month.

It’s the result of six specific things happening, in sequence:

1. Generating Demand — aka getting in front of new people

2. Identifying Leads — bringing those people into your world

3. Extending Invitations — inviting them to hear what you have

4. Converting Prospects — turning interest into a yes

5. Getting Engagement — because you need them to actually use what they bought

6. Making Progress — helping them get the result they came for

Thing is, revenue requires all of those six things to happen; each one depends on the one before it. If you stop getting in front of new people, your audience grows stale. If audience growth is healthy but you never make an offer, conversion is zero. And if conversion is strong but engagement is weak, you get refunds and churn instead of referrals.

Every business that generates revenue has this chain — whether they’ve named it or not.

Here’s where it gets ugly.

Now, let’s take our typical ND founder who has lots and lots of different ways they’re trying to make revenue.

And, of course, every offer has its own chain. Every platform has its own chain. Every audience segment, every funnel, every “I should probably also try this” experiment — each one requires all six links.

Got two offers and three platforms? That’s potentially six chains. Six chains times six links = 36 things to maintain.

But a lot of us don’t have two offers and three platforms. We have four offers, five platforms, a couple of experiments, a legacy product we haven’t sunset, and a community we started in 2023 that we keep meaning to “do something with.”

Now you’re looking at fifteen, twenty chains. Maybe more.

Twenty chains, each with six links?

That’s 120 things you need to be consistent with.

Now, I’m not going to tell you must have ONE offer with ONE marketing channel with ONE sales mechanism, etc.*

Because I know that — especially if your flavor of ND includes a dose of ADHD — you’ve got creative ideas and energy to burn. New chains are FUN to start. They’re novel, they’re exciting, they give you that hit of “this could be the thing.”

But 120 links?

That’s a lot.

* If you’ve been around for a while, you’ll know: I have preached this in the past, while also finding it very difficult to stick to it for myself. Neurotypical business advice is great, for neurotypical brains. Not so much for the rest of us.

Why 120 is a number no one can be consistent with

Let’s put this in context.

Working memory — the part of your brain that holds things you’re actively thinking about and tracking — can handle about 3 to 4 items at a time. That’s the neurotypical baseline.

And research shows that roughly three out of four people with ADHD have measurable working memory deficits on top of that.

So we’re asking a brain that can reliably juggle 3 to 4 things... to track 120.

Add time blindness — the thing where you genuinely cannot feel how long ago you did something, so “I posted last week” might actually have been three weeks ago.

Add object permanence challenges — where things that aren’t directly in front of you might as well not exist. That email sequence you built? The one you haven’t looked at in four months? Your brain has fully forgotten it’s running.

Add executive dysfunction — the gap between knowing what you need to do and being able to make yourself start doing it.

Now stack all of that on top of 120 links.

No one can be consistent with that. Not you. Not me. Not the person on Instagram who looks like they have it all figured out. (They probably have, like, three chains. And an operations team.)

What Happens When You Try to Be Consistent Across Twenty Chains

Here’s what I want you to hear: if you feel overwhelmed, it’s not because something is wrong with you.

It’s because you’re trying to maintain twenty chains with a brain that has a fixed number of things it can handle in a week.

Because it’s not just keeping up with it all consistently.

It’s that those 120 links in the chain?

Means there’s 120 points of potential failure.

And every time one breaks (and of course, they break constantly, because that’s what happens when you can’t watch all of them) you feel it as “I’m dropping the ball again.”

Welllllll… yeah.

Because you’re trying to juggle 120 balls.

Nobody juggles 120 balls.

How ADHD specifically turns creative energy into chain multiplication

And then we add on the fact that ADHD doesn’t just make it harder to maintain chains... It makes it incredibly easy to START them.

New idea? Chain.
New platform trending? Chain.
Client asks if you offer a slightly different service? Chain.

The dopamine hit from starting something new is real.

And the executive function required to evaluate whether this new thing should actually exist alongside everything else you’re already running?

That part doesn’t fire as reliably.

So you end up with a business that looks like a collection of brilliant starts and quiet abandonments.

Because your brain never stopped long enough for you to calculate whether this new chain was worth the six links it would cost you.

Why “something will work eventually” is gambling, not strategy

And then there’s the narrative underlying the whole thing, which is that if you haven’t found the solution yet, you just need to keep searching harder.

I used to tell myself this. A lot.

After all, that’s the entrepreneurial spirit, right?

Except it’s not.

Because “try more things” without knowing which links in which chains are actually working is just... spinning.

You’re busy. You’re exhausted. You can point to a LOT of activity.

But when you actually look at what it produces? It’s not consistency. It’s not strategy.

It’s gambling, dressed up as productivity.

The Difference Between Input Consistency and Outcome Consistency

So let’s go back to this idea of consistency.

What most people mean when they say “be more consistent” is something like:

Post every Tuesday. Send the newsletter every Thursday. Do a sales call every morning at 10am. Batch content on Mondays.

Same input, same schedule, every week. The machine runs, the results follow.

And for some brains, this works. If you can do the same thing at the same time in the same way, week after week, without your nervous system staging a rebellion... great.

That’s not how my brain works.

(And if you’re still reading this, there’s a decent chance it’s not how yours works either.)

I call this type of consistency “input” consistency.

Input consistency: same action, same time, every week

Input consistency requires that your energy, your focus, your motivation and your executive function show up at the same level, at the same time, every single week.

But of course, it doesn’t work that way.

Some weeks I wake up on Monday and I’m ON. I could batch a month of content before lunch. Other weeks, Monday is a write-off and I don’t hit my stride until Wednesday afternoon.

Asking me to do the same thing every Tuesday regardless of what’s happening in my brain and body that day... there’s no way I can do that.

Input consistency quite simply isn’t available to me.

Outcome consistency: same six numbers, moving each week

But what if consistency wasn’t about the specific actions you take, but about always working toward the same output?

Instead of “post every Tuesday,” it becomes: “did I do something this week to get in front of new people?”

Instead of “send the newsletter every Thursday,” it becomes: “did I send invitations to people this week?”

Instead of trying to create a rigid schedule of identical actions... you track six numbers:

One per link in the chain. And every week, the only question is: did each of these move?

The WAY you move them can change.

Monday you might write a post. Wednesday you might do a collaboration. Friday you might just reply to comments.

The actions can be different every time.

But the outcome — the number — is the same thing you’re watching, every week.

That’s outcome consistency. Same destination, flexible route.

The how will vary; the what doesn’t

This is the way I’ve found to actually make consistency mesh with my need for flexibility:

The six numbers don’t change week to week; the six links in my chain are the six links in my chain.

They’re what drives revenue. They’re the outcomes I need to achieve.

But how I do that? The specific actions I take to help each number move?

Those can change every single day.

Because now the consistency is about making progress toward the outcome I’m trying to achieve, rather than the input needing to be the same week in, and week out.

How to Know Which Link to Work On This Week

So, six numbers. One per link.

Great in theory.

But in practice? That’s often a bit less clear, especially if your relationship status with metrics and KPIs is: “it’s complicated.”

So let me give you a dead simple way to approach this to start.

It’s actually the method we built into VisionaryOS, and it goes like this:

Every week, you look at each link in your chain and give it a color:
🔴 Red, 🟡 Yellow, or 🟢 Green.

That’s it.

No spreadsheet, no dashboard, no “first, collect 90 days of baseline data.”

Just a gut check. Because when you look at each link in the chain individually, your gut knows what needs attention.

You don’t need a spreadsheet to tell you that you haven’t made an offer in six weeks. You know.

Then, translate each color into potential actions

Here’s what each of the colors translate to:

Red = something needs to happen this week to get things moving again. Not everything, just... something. One action. One step. Pick the smallest thing that would make a difference and do it.

Yellow = this needs watching. Maybe you investigate why it’s yellow, or run a small experiment. Maybe you just... pay attention this week and see if it resolves on its own.

Green = do more of whatever’s working. Or do nothing at all. Green means this is healthy. You don’t need to fix what isn’t broken.

But here’s the important part of all of this:

YOU choose which options to consider for each color.

Not a formula. Not an AI. Not a coach’s playbook.

YOU.

Because you know your spoons, your capacity, your creativity, your ideas.

You know what you have the energy for THIS week. And that might be completely different from what you had the energy for last week.

The colors tell you where to pay attention; you choose the what to do about it.

Sidenote: yes, data matters

For my data-nerds in the house (hi! It’s me!)… yes, metrics matter.

The 3-color gut check is the starting point. Not the end point.

But I’d much rather you just do the gut check each week, than get caught up trying to build the perfect system to gather and track your numbers each week.

Getting in the habit of having those six links drive your actions each week is a big enough change for most people.

And then, when you’re ready (usually around weeks 3-4 for VisionaryOS users), you can transition from the red/yellow/green stops being a feeling, and start having it driven by real numbers — your actual conversion rate, your actual visibility metrics, your actual client progress scores.

Even then, though, the idea remains the same.

Your KPIs still get translated into the same three states: red, yellow, and green.

Because what we ultimately care about is what you’re going to do about each number, not whether it changed by 0.5% or 1% since last week.

What Consistency Actually Looks Like When It’s Working

Here’s what this looks like in practice:

The Weekly Rhythm

Once a week — doesn’t matter which day — you sit down and look at your six links in the chain. You give each one a color. You decide, for each color, what (if anything) you’re going to do about it this week.

That’s six decisions. Not sixty. Not 120. Six.

And then those decisions, along with whatever else is on your plate (client work, projects, life) — get prioritized and slotted into your available blocks for the week.

The whole process usually takes about 45 minutes if you’re doing it manually; 10 if you’re doing it with VisionaryOS.

Either way, at the end of it, you know exactly what your week is about.

The daily rhythm

Now every day when you sit down to start working, there are three things to do.

They’ve already been prioritized. They’re already matched to your available capacity. You don’t have to decide what’s most important or where to begin; that decision was made during the weekly check-in.

All you do is the three things… and voila.

You’re consistent.

And I know that sounds almost too simple, but that simplicity is the entire point.

Because every system that’s ever worked for me long-term has been simple enough to follow on a low-EF day.

The moment a system requires peak cognitive function to operate, it’s only going to work on the days you don’t need it.

The signal that it’s working

The best part of this approach to consistency for me, though?

Is that the week stops feeling like a gamble.

Not because everything goes perfectly. It never does.

But because now, I can look at my six numbers and see movement.

Maybe not in all of them every week. And not always in the way I hope.

But over a month, over a quarter… the fact that I’m always working to improve those six numbers means that I have been consistent.

It’s just that this type of consistency that keeps me focused on the things that matter, without putting me into a box that says “thou shalt do X every Tuesday at 10am.”

And that means I can be consistent by working with My energy levels, rather than forcing myself to fight against them.

That’s what consistency looks like when it’s actually built for a brain like yours and mine.

Not more. Not harder. Not the same thing every week forever.

Just six numbers, creating action, consistently.

FAQ

Q: Doesn’t this just boil down to “track your KPIs”?

Sort of, but the key magic here isn’t the KPIs themselves. It’s knowing exactly which six KPIs matter, and how to connect them directly to your daily priorities.

You can track all the KPIs you want, but without those two things, you’re left with a pretty dashboard that tells you nothing… and actually having a system that tells you what you should work on today.

Q: Okay, but what exactly should I be tracking?

It depends. I know, I know… but it really does.

The numbers you track depend on the way your business operates; the way you market, the way you sell, the way you deliver.

Good news? We’ve created a free tool that tells you exactly what you can be tracking. It’s completely free, and available at: https://visionaryos.app/demo/kpi

Q: What if I genuinely only have one offer and one platform — do I still have multiple chains?

If you truly have one offer, one audience, one platform — congratulations, you have one chain with six links. That’s manageable. The problem isn’t having chains; it’s having too many.

But be honest with yourself: most people who think they have one chain actually have a few adjacent ones they’re not counting.

That “free workshop” is its own mini-chain. The service you keep in your back pocket “just in case” is another. And that abandoned course from 2023? Yeah, still a chain until you officially kill it.

Hi, I’m Breanne (she/her), and I’m the co-founder of VisionaryOS.

It’s the first (and only) software purpose-built for ND service providers, designed to take all the “could dos” currently swirling inside your head, and prioritize them based on your current time, money, and energy constraints.

Try a free demo today at https://visionaryos.app/demo/top3

I am not a neat and tidy person.

Just ask my mom, who spent years trying to find a way to get me to keep my room clean. Or Jae, who tolerates the pile of laundry that accumulates if the basket isn’t in its place. Or, well...

Look for yourself:

I cannot keep things clean and organized. And honestly? I’m 42. I have been this way my whole life.

I figured it’s just the way I am, and nothing is going to change it.

Enter “The Container Concept.”

This is a concept I was introduced to by Dana K. White, and the way it works is deceptively simple:

Every surface, every box, every room in your house is a container. It holds what it can hold.

Take, for example, that bookshelf in the corner. The shelf is a container. It holds a certain number of books. That’s it.

If you try to cram more books onto the shelf than it can physically hold, they start leaning, sliding, stacking sideways. You go to pull one off and three others tumble out. And suddenly your bookshelf — the one you just organized — looks like a mess again.

This is not the shelf’s fault, as it turns out.

It’s that I put more on it than it could hold.

Turns out, time works the same way.

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The Week I Planned for Someone Who Doesn’t Exist

Here’s how my Mondays used to go.

Monday morning, I’d roll out of bed, avoid tripping over the stack of laundry in the corner, grab some breakfast and my laptop ... and dive into whatever caught my fancy.

Email, Slack, Facebook DMs...

The client project, the marketing post...

Everything was fair game.

And it worked, as long as I could keep everything in my head in clear, in order, and not forget a thing.

Which is to say... not at all.

My brain, as it turns out, is not a reliable filing cabinet.

So, I decided to create a plan for my week: five days, my epic to-do list, and all the best intentions.

I’d map it all out. A call here, a content batch there, a project sprint on Thursday. It looked clean. It looked doable. It looked like the week of someone who has their life together.

And of course, by Tuesday afternoon, it was already falling apart.

Not because the priorities were wrong, or because I got lazy or unfocused or unambitious. Because the person who made that plan doesn’t actually exist.

She never gets a headache on Wednesday. She never has a client show up with a fire that eats two hours she didn’t have. She never opens her laptop on Thursday morning and just... doesn’t have it in her. She never gets blindsided by a team member out sick, a payment that didn’t process, a brain that’s just not cooperating today for reasons she can’t name.

That version of me has infinite energy, infinite focus, and a nervous system that cooperates on demand. She’s the founder I’d be if I were a robot running on clean code with no bugs and no interrupts.

And so I tried. I really did. I planned for her every single week. And every single week, real me — the one with the finite energy and the actual life — couldn’t keep up.

So I stopped.

Not stopped planning; I like structure too much for that.

No, I stopped planning against a fake version of myself and started planning for the real one instead.

The one who sometimes has three great hours in her and sometimes has one. The one whose brain works differently depending on the day, the week, the season, and whether there was enough milk for breakfast or not.

And I did by planning a week that functions like a container.

What overflows isn’t just tasks

Turns out, I have a fixed amount of time. A fixed amount of energy. And a fixed number of hours when your brain is actually online and capable of doing real work.

(Shocking, I know)

That’s the container. And like the bookshelf that can only hold so much... my week can only hold so much.

Because most of us plan like the container is infinite. We pile everything on, hope nothing falls off.

But it does. It always does.

And the trick is, when you overstuff your week, the first thing that falls off isn’t the tasks themselves. It’s the quality of everything around them.

• Decision quality drops. You start defaulting to whatever feels urgent because you don’t have the bandwidth to figure out what’s actually important.

• Follow-through gets patchy. Not because you forgot, but because you ran out of cognitive bandwidth three days ago and your brain is just... done.

• Energy levels tank — followed quickly by clarity, then the ability to prioritize at all, then the ability to even *remember* what you were trying to prioritize in the first place.

And by Friday, you’re not looking at a week of tasks you completed — you’re looking at a week of half-finished things, three deferred commitments you feel guilty about, and a growing suspicion that something is wrong with you because other people seem to handle this just fine.

The container decides how much fits. You decide what goes in.

The key, for me, was to stop asking: What do I need to get done?

And start asking: How much can I actually do this week?

That answer comes first: before the priorities, before the to-do list. Before any of it.

Because once you know the size of the container, the decisions about what goes inside it get dramatically simpler.

You’re not agonizing over whether you can fit one more thing in. You already know how much space you have. You fill it — and then you stop.

The important thing is that the priorities don’t change. What changes is that you stop pretending you can do all of them in the same five days.

The Block System: 90 Minutes, 3 Blocks, 15 Max

“Okay, so that’s great in theory,” you say. “But how do I actually know how much I can actually do this week”

Because I know you: you can’t estimate how long a task will take to save your soul.

It’s okay, I can’t either.

So I don’t try.

Instead, I break my week into 90 minute blocks.

That’s the amount of time that Nathaniel Kleitman — the sleep researcher who discovered REM cycles — found that your body runs on: roughly 90 to 120 minutes of high alertness followed by a dip.

But put the research aside, and there’s an even simpler reason I use 90-minute blocks:

It’s because when you’re working with an ND brain like mine, a 90-minute block gives you room to get distracted, come back, get distracted again, and still finish the thing.

The block isn’t “90 minutes of focus.” It’s 90 minutes to accomplish an outcome — including all the wandering, side-questing and “oh wait, I need to do this other thing first” that happens along the way.

That’s a fundamentally different kind of time block. It’s not aspirational; it’s honest about the brain you’re actually working with.

A task-based time block says: “Do this specific thing for 90 minutes.” An outcome-based time block says: “Here’s 90 minutes to get this result — however your brain needs to get there.” The first one sets you up to fail the moment you get sidetracked. The second one builds the sidetracking into the design.

Three blocks per day, more than five days per week.

Now, if a block is 90 minutes and you’ve got three of them in a day, that means you’ve got 4.5 hours of actual output time a day.

The rest of your work day — and yes, there is a rest of your work day — is transitions, admin, recovery, and life.

And then we take that three blocks, and we multiply it out across five days a week.

That’s 15 blocks maximum.

Not 15 blocks of “productive time.” 15 blocks *total*, including the ones you’re going to need for flex (more on that in a minute).

That means your week can hold at most 15 priorities. Less, actually.

If you’ve been running with a todo list that’s 40 miles and 200 items long, that’s going to feel impossible.

Because it is.

Making the invisible constraint visible

The reason the block system works isn’t the 90-minute thing. It’s that the blocks make your capacity visible.

See, the container isn’t to blame. It’s never to blame. It’s not the week’s fault that it only has so many hours in it.

Which is why the alternative - aka what most of us have been doing for years - doesn’t work. We fill every available hour, leave no margin, and wonder why we’re exhausted by Wednesday.

Before I used this system, I had no idea what my capacity actually was. It lived in my head as a vague sense of “I can probably handle that.”

Which... I couldn’t. But I didn’t know that until I was already underwater.

Now I look at a grid. Fifteen slots. Some are already taken — client calls, standing meetings, recurring commitments. Those aren’t flexible. They’re in the container whether I like it or not.

What’s left over is my actual available capacity for the week.

And when you see it as a grid — when you can literally count the empty blocks — it becomes real.

It forces you to stop asking “can I fit this in?” and start asking “what’s worth one of my remaining blocks?”

That’s a completely different question. And it leads to completely different decisions.

And it also does something subtler: it forces you to deal with the trade-offs.

When someone asks you to take on a new project mid-week, you’re not weighing it against a vague feeling of “I’m pretty busy.” You’re looking at a grid with two empty blocks and asking yourself: *Is this worth one of them?*

Sometimes the answer is yes. But now it’s an actual decision, not an accidental commitment.

When the Blocks Are Full, You Stop Adding

Of course, for that to work - you need to have extra blocks.

And I’ll be honest: that’s where most people hit the wall. Not with the system, per se... but with themselves.

Because even when you can see the grid... even when you know you’ve got 15 blocks max and 6 of them are already committed... your brain will still try to convince you that you can squeeze in one more thing.

Maybe you could work a little later on Tuesday. Maybe you don’t *really* need that break on Thursday. Maybe this one thing is small enough that it doesn’t count as a full block.

(It always counts as a full block.)

This is exactly what we found when we started testing this with our VisionaryOS users. One of our earliest beta testers said, “I do not like how it’s telling me I don’t have time to do everything I want to do.”

And then, a half-second later: “But it’s also telling me the truth.”

That constraint — the one that says you’re full, stop adding — isn’t a limitation. It’s the feature.

What “full” actually means

See, a full week doesn’t mean every block has a task in it. Full means every block is accounted for… including the ones that are deliberately left empty.

That’s where most people get tripped up:

They fill every block with a priority, leave zero margin, and then call it a “full week.” But a full container without breathing room isn’t a plan. It’s a promise you’re going to break.

Full means: work blocks are assigned. Flex blocks are protected. Committed time is logged. And the remaining blocks — the ones that are genuinely available for new priorities — are filled to capacity and no further.

When the blocks are full, you’re done. You can’t invent more time, any more than you can put more books on that bookshelf.

And what happens when there’s more to do than you have blocks for?

If there’s more to do than blocks, something comes off

If your to-do list is longer than your available blocks, something doesn’t make it into the week. Period. You don’t expand the container. You don’t work on Saturday. You don’t tell yourself you’ll “find time.”

Because the container only has as much space as the container has.

So you look at what’s on the list, decide what matters most, and let the rest go.

And yes — that means some things won’t get done this week. Maybe some of them won’t get done at all. That’s not failure; that’s the container doing its job.

Because the alternative is that you plan for 20 things in a 15-block week. By Wednesday you’ve finished 8 and you’re fried. You spend Thursday putting out fires from the 12 things that are now behind. Friday is damage control.

And you end the week feeling like you failed — even though you did 8 whole things.

The container, with its fixed number of blocks, prevents that. Not by making you more productive, but by making you more honest about what “this week” can hold.

And honestly? That’s the hardest part, because it means sitting with the discomfort of saying “this won’t get done this week” — and not immediately trying to find a way to squeeze it in anyway.

But that discomfort lasts five minutes on Monday. The alternative — planning an impossible week and living inside the failure of it for five days — lasts all week.

Why Flex Blocks Aren’t Optional

Now, speaking of Flex Blocks — I’ve mentioned them a few times. And I want to warn you ... Flex Blocks sound optional.

They’re not.

A Flex Block is a 90-minute slot where nothing is scheduled. No client work. No project sprint. No content batch. Just... space.

And I know what that sounds like. It sounds like a luxury; like something you do when you’ve got everything handled and you’re just cruising.

But that’s not what Flex Blocks are for.

No, Flex Blocks are for when everything goes to hell. Their entire purpose is to act as a structural shock absorber, to address the simple fact that *your week will not go as planned.*

What happens when every block is committed

See, when every single block in your week is assigned to something, you have zero margin for anything unexpected.

So when the unexpected shows up — and it will — one of two things happens. Either something on the plan gets dropped without a decision (it just... doesn’t get done and you feel bad about it). Or you work extra to absorb the hit, burning time and energy you didn’t have.

Both of those feel like failures, but neither of them needed to happen.

Because if you’d left a Flex Block open on Wednesday, that client fire on Tuesday just... moves into the Flex Block. The work that got skipped on Tuesday gets done on Wednesday instead. Everything gets rearranged, the chaos gets absorbed, and the week bends instead of snapping.

That’s not a small thing.

Because when you’re already spending half your day managing the gap between “what I planned” and “what actually happened” — a week that bends instead of breaks is the difference between a system you use and a system you abandon.

How many flex blocks you need

This one changes week to week. You need at least one; always at least one. But beyond that, the answer is “it depends.”

Coming off a vacation? You might only need that one. Your energy is high, your bandwidth is good, your nervous system is regulated.

Coming into a week with three client calls, a deadline, and the fact that you slept terribly last night? You might need two or three Flex Blocks. Which means you’ve only got 12 blocks for actual work...

And that’s fine, because that’s the real container for this week.

The Flex Blocks are how you adjust the container to match the person who’s actually going to live the week. Not the fake version or the ideal one that showed up that one time in March.

The real one with the headache, the low energy, and the morning that starts sideways.

If you’re short on energy, add a Flex Block. If you’re short on time, maybe you decide ahead of time to work an extra block. But no matter what, set the container first. Always first.

What a Week Planned for the Real You Actually Looks Like

In case all this theorizing has left you feeling a bit bewildered, here’s a Monday-morning comparison.

• The old way: You look at your priority list. You’ve got 28 things you want to accomplish. You spread them across 5 days. You assign times. You add calls and meetings. It looks tight but doable. You tell yourself you’ll be disciplined.

• The new way: You count your blocks. 15 max. You subtract 4 for standing commitments. You subtract 2 for Flex (it’s a medium-energy week). That leaves 9 blocks. You look at your priority list. There’s still 28 things on it, but now you know: only the top things fit. The rest move to next week, or they get delegated, or they get cut.

The priorities haven’t changed. What changed is you stopped pretending all 28 things could happen in the same week.

What changes when you plan capacity-first

The first thing you’ll notice when you do this is that Monday feels different. Not lighter, exactly — but clearer. Because you’re not starting the week with an impossible plan you’ll need to constantly triage.

You’re starting with a plan that fits.

Which means when you sit down Tuesday morning and your gut says “I don’t want to do that”— you’ve already got a Flex Block. You swap. You adjust. And the week absorbs the extra.

You stop spending emotional energy on “am I behind?” Because you built the plan to hold exactly what you can carry.

And over time, something else shifts too. You start trusting your own plans. Not because they’re perfect, but because they’re honest. And an honest plan you follow through on is worth infinitely more than a perfect plan that falls apart half-way in.

Warning: this will feel incredibly wrong.

The first time you plan this way, it’s going to feel wrong.

You’ll look at those 9 or 10 filled blocks and think: *That’s not enough. I should be doing more. Other people are doing more.*

But other people aren’t living inside your nervous system. Other people don’t have your client load, your energy patterns, your brain. And most of them are planning against their own fake selves too. They’re just not honest about it yet.

A week planned for the real you doesn’t look like less. It looks like what actually happens. Because the plan matches the person. The container matches the capacity.

And instead of ending Friday with guilt about what didn’t happen, you end it knowing that everything in the container got done. Not everything on the wishlist. Everything in the container.

And here’s the thing about containers: they don’t just constrain you.

They free you. Because once the container is set, once the blocks are filled and the flex is protected and the overflow is acknowledged — you stop carrying the weight of the impossible week.

You stop spending Monday anxious about whether you can get it all done.

You stop spending Wednesday in triage mode.

You stop spending Friday feeling like a failure for being a human person with human limitations.

The plan holds because it was built for someone real:

You.

The you that’s here this week, running this business, with whatever capacity you actually have.

That’s the only version worth planning for.

FAQ

Q: How do I figure out how many blocks I actually have in a week?

Start with 15 (3 blocks per day, 5 days). Subtract any blocks already claimed by standing commitments — client calls, recurring meetings, anything that’s non-negotiable. Then subtract at least 1 block for flex.

What’s left is your real available capacity. Most people land somewhere between 8 and 12 usable blocks per week... which feels shockingly low until you realize that’s been your actual capacity all along. You were just pretending otherwise.

Q: What counts as a “block”? Does every task need a full 90 minutes?

A block is 90 minutes dedicated to one outcome, not one task. If you’ve got a priority that only takes 30 minutes of focused work... it still gets a block, because your brain is going to wander, get pulled into adjacent tasks, or need ramp-up time.

The block isn’t about the task — it’s about giving the outcome room to happen inside a real brain, not a theoretical one.

Q: What if I genuinely can’t cut anything from my list?

Then your list is telling you something important: you’re committed to more than one person can do. That’s not a planning problem, it’s a workload problem.

The block system doesn’t fix that. What it does is make the mismatch visible so you can deal with it — delegate, renegotiate a deadline, drop something that seemed important but isn’t actually moving the business forward.

The worst thing you can do is pretend it all fits when it doesn’t.

Q: Won’t I get less done with only 9-12 blocks per week?

You’ll get fewer things started. You’ll get more things finished. Most overloaded weeks don’t actually produce more output — they produce more half-done work, more context-switching, and more cognitive debt that spills into the following week.

A 10-block week where everything in the container gets completed outperforms a 20-item week where 12 things are still hanging by Friday.

Hi, I’m Breanne (she/her), and I’m the co-founder of VisionaryOS.

It’s the first (and only) software purpose-built for ND service providers, designed to take all the “could dos” currently swirling inside your head, and prioritize them based on your current time, money, and energy constraints.

Try a free demo today at https://visionaryos.app/demo/top3

So why do I set aside a full 90-minute block to do it?

Because last Monday, while doing my weekly planning, I also:

• Investigated options for website analytics

• Installed said analytics on the VOS website

• Designed a new feature enhancement

• Written 3 social media updates

• Had 2 extensive back-and-forth DM conversations

• Updated my marketing plan for the month

• Selected new KPIs to track now that we’re in open beta

• Researched personal training certifications while considering a career switch

(That last one. I know. I KNOW.)

Hyperfocus Isn’t Always Available

Here’s the thing: VisionaryOS doesn’t assume you can hyperfocus on something as mundane as “brain dumping what you’ve got going on right now.”

Rather, it assumes that you will get completely sidetracked mid-brain-dump. Go off to do one thing. Come back 20 minutes later not really remembering where you were. Think of 4 unrelated things you should do this week. Write down 3. Go check on something for the 4th. Come back and put it on the list since you did step 1 but now steps 2-5 need more time...

And then — somehow — it turns that whole mess into a simple list of the best things to focus on this week.

(Yes, I programmed it. Yes, I technically know how it does it. But I also don’t get it because it’s sooooo not the way my brain works!)

But last Monday, despite all that mess, it miraculously came back to me again:

Prioritized. Organized by day. Ready to go.

Also in 90-minute blocks.

Because let’s be real: I’m gonna get distracted. It’s gonna take me 3 hours to do something that “should” have taken 3 minutes, and 30 minutes to do something that would take others 3 hours.

So we need a way to address that, too, which leads me to…

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Outcomes, Not Tasks

Here’s what that looked like in practice last week:

My Top 3 for Tuesday priorities included “follow up with waitlist applicants.” Simple, right?

And yet — while I was doing that, I realized my pipeline tracker was out of date. That I had leads in 50 different places. That I needed to update my notes-to-self scripts now that we’re in open beta.

None of those things were on my list when I planned my Top 3 on Monday. They were tasks I wasn’t even aware of. Things I didn’t even know I should do.

If I’d made myself a rigid task list and scheduled my day around it, I’d have been stuck with a conundrum: either stick to the original task list and hope I remember those other things later... or start doing the new things and accept that I’m going to work later than I planned to get it all done.

Personally, I don’t like either of those options.

What I much prefer is what I’ve got now: a 90-minute block to accomplish the outcome of following up with those applicants. That covers the actual outreach, yes, but it also gives enough time to accomplish all the other things I wasn’t even aware of when I sat down.

Net result? My pipeline tracker is organized, my leads are consolidated, my notes are updated, and all of my follow-ups are sent. I even had time to write about it on Facebook.

And I finished my day exactly when I’d originally planned.

This is why VisionaryOS works the way it does. Because it’s built around outcomes, not tasks; time blocks, not checklists. In other words, it’s for the way your brain actually works — not the way you wish it did on a good day.

But Even A Good Plan Has Bad Days

Fast forward to Wednesday, and I was not having it.

Because look, I get it: some mornings you open your Top 3 and your immediate, visceral, gut reaction is — yeah, I don’t want to do that.

In the past, I would have forced it. It’s on the plan, I have to do it, or it won’t get done. Except it would be a 50-50 shot as to whether my brain and body would actually cooperate. Chances were good I’d spend the day trying to push through stuff I didn’t have the spoons for, and still end up with it not done.

(Just now more tired and frustrated and cranky than when I started)

Life with VisionaryOS is different.

Because ECoS — my Experimental Chief of Staff, the one who built my week — knew I was coming into the week with lower energy. So they’d given me extra Flex Blocks: time when nothing is scheduled, nothing needs doing, nothing to work on. It even proposed I take one today.

I, foolishly, thought I knew better. So I changed it before I finalized my weekly plan on Monday.

(You can see where this is going.)

But here’s the thing about ECoS. Unlike Claude, which is getting kinda judgey these days (IYKYK)… ECoS doesn’t judge. Doesn’t say I told you so. Doesn’t remind me I’d committed to it.

It just helps me adjust.

I went back to the plan, swapped the thing I didn’t want to do over to Friday. Brought the Flex Block I’d moved there back to today.

And just like that, I’m set.

The important stuff still gets done — just not now, when my nervous system is already fried.

That’s not a small thing. For an ND brain like mine, that’s the difference between a week that works and a week that just... happens to you.

What This Is Really All About

Now, not everyone reading this is going to use VisionaryOS (even though, if it resonates, you totally should 🤣)

So let me break this down for you. Because the tool makes this easier, but only because the underlying principles are sound:

1. Break your week into 90 minute blocks

2. Each block gets an outcome, not a task (or list of tasks)

3. Pre-load at least one flex block each week

4. When the plan goes off the rails, swap blocks around

And if you want a tool that just does this all for you?

VisionaryOS is built with the assumption that your brain won’t always cooperate — and it plans accordingly.

The 90-minute block exists because your brain is going to wander. The outcome-based Top 3 exists because you don’t always know what the work actually involves until you’re in it. The Flex Blocks exist because some days you open your plan and your gut says no — and that needs to be okay.

This is what “built for the way your brain actually works” means in practice. Not a tagline. Not an aspiration.

Just a system that already knows you’re going to get distracted, run out of spoons, and occasionally play Cities Skylines when you should be doing something else…

… and plans for it anyway.

Hi, I’m Breanne (she/her), and I’m the co-founder of VisionaryOS.

It’s the first (and only) software purpose-built for ND service providers, designed to take all the “could dos” currently swirling inside your head, and prioritize them based on your current time, money, and energy constraints.

Give it a try for free (no account needed):
https://visionaryos.app/demo/top3

(Stay with me.)

No, not the software. VisionaryOS is more real than it’s ever been — 104 commits, 183 files, 16,000 lines of code dropped in the last couple of weeks alone. We even officially hit open beta, which is a major milestone to say the least.

No, what I quit was the wrong job inside the right company.

Here’s what happened.

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The Long Transition

When Jae and I made the pivot to software, we knew it wasn’t going to be like flipping a switch: we still had clients, we still had commitments, and frankly — we still needed the revenue.

So we were both doing a bit of everything. She was still running coaching clients. I was making product decisions I had no business making. (I’m a designer who was cosplaying as a developer. It wasn’t cute.)

The work was getting done. But neither of us was fully in our zone of genius.

Then last week happened.

We were pushing out the Top 3 feature. Jae went in to test, and I think she finally got fed up with my spaghetti code, because within twenty minutes she’d stopped testing and started fixing.

Just like that, she was in a total flow state. Quiet, focused, totally in it.

I watched this happen and realized two things:

1. I haven’t seen her in that level of flow for a long time.

2. I don’t get into flow when I’m coding. Designing, yes. Coding, no.

Now, I CAN code. I have a computer science degree (and a functioning piece of software) to prove it. But the spaghetti code that had crept in over months of moving fast? Jae was in there having fun untangling it.

So I went and played Cities Skylines.

(Because what else would a designer-type-person who loves detail and making things look and work just right do for fun?)

By Sunday afternoon we went for a walk, and both acknowledged we were feeling more energized than we’d been in months. Not because the work was easier, but because we were finally doing the right work.

But It’s Not That Simple

Thing is, I know myself well enough to know that without something to catch me, I’ll be halfway back into Jae’s lane by next Thursday before I’ve even noticed I’ve left mine. My autistic brain loves routine, after all.

Because even though she could do it…

Well, that “could” word is a bugaboo.

Because when I say “someone else could do this” …

I’m not saying “someone else should” or “someone else will.”

They could.

Let’s be honest, there’s a task on your list right now like this.

You are absolutely capable of doing it. You’ve probably already started it, at least in your head. Maybe you’re halfway through it.

And it belongs to someone else.

Not because you can’t do it. Because you could, and that’s exactly why it’s still yours.

The key I’ve learned is that I can’t just trust myself to catch those “coulds.” Because the moment I need it the most — when I’m already halfway into the wrong work — is exactly when my brain is least likely to stop and ask.

The Question That Needs To Come First

Every week, ECoS (the Experimental Chief of Staff inside VisionaryOS) helps me triage the work to be done:

Notice the options above; most of them are pretty obvious:

• Does this need to get done, or can we delete it?

• Do you want to defer it until next week?

But then there are the two that stop me every time:

1. “Is this someone else’s job?”

2. “Could someone else do this?”

On paper, they look almost the same. But they’re not.

“Someone else’s job” is easy. That’s a wrong-person problem with a clear answer: give the work back to the person it belongs to.

But as we already saw, “someone else could do this” is the real important one. Because my brain — and probably yours — hears that and immediately starts negotiating:

It’s faster if I just do it. Probably true. You know how. You’ve done it before.

If I hand it off I have to explain it first. Also true. And explaining takes time you don’t have, which means you’d have to schedule time you don’t have to save time you’re not sure you’ll get back.

Honestly it’s just easier if I handle it. And there it is. The thing your brain was building toward the whole time.

And so the work never leaves your plate.

This negotiation happens fast. Faster than you can normally catch it. By the time you’ve noticed the pattern, you’re already twenty minutes in and it feels wrong to stop now.

That’s why the pattern interrupt matters. VisionaryOS doesn’t let me off the hook. It forces me to acknowledge — every week, before the negotiation happens, before my brain convinces me to just do it — could someone else do this?

Before I’ve already spent two hours doing something that wasn’t mine to do.

It's Not Your Brain

After having spent more than 15 years of coaching biz owners, I know two things:

• This isn’t a “me” problem. It’s a “this is just the way your brain works” problem—which means the solution isn’t to change your brain, but to change the system.

• I’m not alone with this; your business probably has the same problem. Not the “stepping on your co-founder’s toes” version necessarily… but somewhere in your week, there’s work that isn’t yours.

Most people aren’t that lucky.

They assume they need to fix their brain or change something about themselves. When that doesn’t work, they think they’re flawed and that the solution is to try harder.

And so not only do you end up doing work you’re capable of but that costs twice as much energy as it should… but you’re probably halfway into it before you’ve noticed you started.

VisionaryOS is the software we built to take all those could-dos swirling in your head and turn them into a clear set of daily Top 3 priorities. Every week, it helps you get stuff off your plate — so you can free up your time, work with your energy, and actually make more money.

Want to see how it works? There’s a free 10-minute demo available; no account necessary.

Hi, I’m Breanne (she/her), and I’m the co-founder of VisionaryOS.

It’s the first (and only) software purpose-built for ND service providers, designed to take all the “could dos” currently swirling inside your head, and prioritize them based on your current time, money, and energy constraints.

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That’s a hallmark of how my brain processes information, and honestly, in a lot of contexts — it’s super useful: clean categories, no tolerance for vagaries.

But revenue isn’t a category. It’s a chain. A process. A sequence of things that all need to happen. Which means if I treat it like a yes/no question, I lose every signal that would tell me where the chain is breaking.

And I’m guessing you’re probably the same.

Say you want a $30K month. Okay, but what are you tracking to get there?

Clicks on your sales page? New followers? Email conversions?

What are the leading indicators you’re measuring to make sure your lagging indicator — cash collected — actually happens?

Because revenue is the last thing that shows up. By the time you’re looking at it, it’s already too late to change anything. So when you miss the goal, you’re left with what, exactly?

Post more? Try harder? Hope something clicks?

That’s not a strategy, that’s gambling. And ND brains — who are already working hard to keep everything in working memory — don’t need one more ambiguous problem to hold.

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What Actually Needs To Happen

Most neurotypical business advice says that the solution is just to be more consistent. “Do more of the right things,” the story goes, “and it’ll all work itself out.”

I disagree.

Not only because for many of us, ADHD traits mean that consistency itself is incredibly costly from a nervous system perspective…

But more importantly, because it’s the wrong diagnosis (and therefore, wrong treatment).

Because the real problem isn’t your consistency. It’s that you’re running a business without a way to see what’s actually creating revenue. Without that visibility, you’re not running a revenue engine; you’re guessing.

The good news is you don’t need to track a million things, and you don’t need to become consistent with a pile of tasks that may or may not actually help. What you need to understand the process that creates revenue in your business: the actual path someone takes from “never heard of you” to “bought from you and might again.”

That path has six stages.

Not fifty. Not a hundred. Six.

1. How you get in front of new people.

2. How you stay connected to them.

3. How you invite them to your offer.

4. How you convert them into a sale.

5. How you keep clients engaged.

6. How you make sure they’re getting results.

That’s your revenue engine.

And when know how things are working at each step, you can stop guessing — and start working just on the things that actually matter (so you can give your brain and nervous system a break every now and again).

Where Most ND Founders Go Wrong

Most people either track nothing and rely on gut feel… or track everything and drown in data they never actually use.

Or — and this one is especially common — they collapse marketing and sales into one blob. So they’re tracking engagement, clicks, reach. Numbers that feel useful. But they have no idea if those numbers are turning into conversations. Or if conversations are turning into sales.

But that’s not the whole story. Because here’s what that actually looks like in practice:

Let’s say you offer a high-ticket consulting package. The question isn’t just “did we make a sale this month?” — it’s the whole chain that leads there:

How many potential leads saw your offer? How many were qualified? How many qualified leads did you actually engage with? How many showed real interest? How many did you invite to a call? How many landed on your sales page? How many downloaded your freebie, filled out an inquiry form, showed up to a live session?

See how one question expands into a whole system of actionable steps?

Most people — even six- and seven-figure founders — aren’t tracking any of this.

When revenue is rolling in, it’s easy not to question the mechanics. But when sales cycles get longer, when what used to work starts requiring more intention, you need to know where the process is breaking.

The data exists. It’s just not telling you what to do… because you haven’t set it up to.

The Six Numbers That Change The Game

The good news is you don’t need more metrics.

You need the right metrics. One for each stage of the process.

Six numbers. That’s it.

Because each one answers a specific question:

• Are you getting in front of enough people?

• Are you capturing them so you can follow up?

• Are you actually inviting them to your offer?

• Are those invitations converting?

• Are your clients staying engaged?

• Are they getting results that lead to more revenue?

When you have those six numbers, you can see exactly where things are breaking. Not in a vague “something’s not working” way. In a “oh, the problem is here, in this specific stage” way.

That’s the difference between guessing and knowing.

And for ND service providers, this matters way beyond the revenue goal.

Because what makes the revenue engine so useful isn’t just that it tells you where to focus. It’s that it takes the ambient noise — all those “am I doing enough? is this working? what should I be doing right now?” loops — and replaces them with a clear signal.

So when you sit down on a random Wednesday morning, instead of spending the first 45 minutes figuring out what to work on, you already know.

Because your numbers tell you.

• If your “generate” number is low — you focus on visibility.

• If your “invite” number is low — you make more offers.

• If your “convert” number is low — you look at your sales process.

No spiralling. No overthinking. No rebuilding context from scratch.

Just: here’s what needs attention. Go.

The Truth About Feeling Stuck

Traditional business advice assumes your executive function is consistent. That you can hold a 90-day plan in working memory and translate it into action every single day.

But ND working memory doesn’t work the same way. And so when your revenue engine is invisible — when it lives in your head or somewhere you have to reconstruct every week — it costs you cognitive load just to operate. Every. Single. Week.

But wen it’s external and visible? That cognitive load goes away. You stop using your brain to hold the system, and you start using it to run the system.

That’s what creates the space to actually breathe.

So if you’ve been stuck at the same revenue level for months, it’s probably not because you need to work harder, or do more of all the things. It’s that you need to figure out where the gap is in your revenue engine. Figure out what you’d track to know if it’s healthy. And put that number somewhere you can see it every week.

Because the difference between staying stuck at the same goal and finally moving past it isn’t more output. It’s knowing which output matters.

Hi, I’m Breanne (she/her), and I’m the co-founder of VisionaryOS.

It’s the first (and only) software purpose-built for ND service providers, designed to take all the “could dos” currently swirling inside your head, and prioritize them based on your current time, money, and energy constraints.

We’ve got a free demo that tells you exactly which KPIs to track for your.
Give it a try now at: https://visionaryos.app/demo/kpi

• Why it matters.

• What approaches work.

• How to do it better.

But after having spent two days in a virtual planning retreat with a dozen or so ND service providers, I realized something important:

Honestly, I’ve seen this happen over and over again. (Experienced it myself, too.)

You walk away from a planning session feeling clear, focused, even energized. You’ve got a solid plan, a handful of ideas, and a clear sense of what you want to change in your business.

And then a week later…

You’re busy.

You’re answering messages, handling client work, tweaking something in your marketing, picking up tasks that feel important in the moment. Nothing you’re doing feels random. In fact, it all feels necessary.

But if someone asked you, “How’s that experiment going?” you’d probably pause. Maybe hesitate a bit. Feel that small twinge of guilt.

Because you haven’t actually touched it. Or at least, not in a way where you can clearly say: “Yes, this is moving forward.”

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Why Good Plans Don’t Turn Into Results

See, there’s an assumption that if the plan is good enough… if you’re motivated enough…if you’re clear and committed… then execution will naturally follow.

But that’s not what actually happens.

Especially for those of us whose brains tend toward the autistic or ADHD side of things.

No, what actually happens is much simpler (and much more predictable):

• You catch up on client work.

• You work your way through a backlog of emails.

• You write the marketing posts you fell behind on while you were off planning.

In other words, you default back to being a busy operator.

You’re productive. You’re active. You’re staying “on top of things.” You’re doing all the right things… except you’re not actually running the experiment you said would move the business forward.

And over time, that creates a very specific kind of frustration, because it feels like you’re doing everything right but nothing really changes.

The Shift: From Ideas to Defined Experiments

The thing I’ve found is that if you want your business to get better, and not just busier…

You have to stop treating your plans like ideas and start treating them like a deliberate strategic focus that is more important than your default work.

That’s a very different way of operating.

A real experiment has a job. It exists to fix something that’s currently costing you time, money, or energy in your business. It has a defined start and end. And it’s not something you “kind of work on when you have time.”

It’s something you are actively running to see if it changes how your business performs.

So the real question becomes: how do you make sure that experiment doesn’t disappear the second you get busy?

There are three pieces that make this work.

1. Experiments Must Have Milestones

First, you need to break the experiment into milestones that actually drive movement. This is where most plans quietly fall apart, because they either stay too vague or turn into long, overwhelming lists of tasks.

Neither of those works.

What you want instead is a small set of milestones—usually three to six—that represent meaningful chunks of progress. They should be things you can execute yourself, not dependent on someone else responding or external timing. They should take about one to three weeks each. And when you complete one, you can clearly say: that’s done.

This is what turns an idea into something you can actually act on.

2. Make The Milestones Fit Into Reality

For most of us, we’re committed to making sure balls don’t drop. That means we prioritize the urgent over the important.

The truth is, if you want your business to change, you have to force those milestones into your weekly reality.

If the experiment lives in a document you don’t open, a notebook you don’t revisit, or somewhere you’re relying on memory to surface it at the right time, it doesn’t matter how good the plan was. It won’t happen.

You need to map those milestones into your actual weeks—and put them in the same place you decide what you’re working on when Monday starts.

That way, they show up alongside client work, alongside marketing, alongside everything else. They live somewhere you can’t not see them. And that’s what shifts them from “something I should do” to “something that is part of how I run my business.”

3. Track Progress Every Week

And finally, you need a way to tell if the experiment is working, because otherwise, everything collapses back into guesswork.

This is where most people either overcomplicate things (or, more likely, avoid them entirely). They think they need dashboards with dozens of metrics and constant tracking.

You don’t.

What you actually need is a small set of numbers that reflect how your business is performing.

In my world, that’s six: two for marketing, two for sales, and two for delivery.

That’s it.

Those numbers tell you where to focus. They tell you what’s working and what’s not. They tell you whether the experiment you’re running is actually changing anything.

And they tell you where to put your limited time and energy every week, so you know what needs attention and what you can safely ignore because it’s going just fine.

Without that clarity, you’re just doing things and hoping they pay off. With it, you’re running a system.

You Didn’t Actually Want The Plan

At the end of the day, the goal is never just to have a plan. It’s not even to follow-through with the plan. It’s to stop putting in effort that goes nowhere.

When you start running deliberate experiments—supported by clear milestones, grounded in your weekly execution, and guided by a small set of meaningful KPIs—you move out of that cycle.

You stop guessing. You stop overworking just because everything feels urgent.

And you start building a business where you can actually see what’s driving your results—and do more of that, on purpose.

So if you take nothing else from this, take this:

Pick one experiment.

Define what “done” looks like.
Break it into milestones.
Put the first one into your week.

Not someday. Not when things calm down. This week.

Because the difference between a plan that feels good and a business that actually improves… is whether the experiment ever gets run.

Hi, I’m Breanne (she/her), and I’m the co-founder of VisionaryOS.

It’s the first (and only) software purpose-built for ND service providers, designed to take all the “could dos” currently swirling inside your head, and prioritize them based on your current time, money, and energy constraints.

Try a free demo today at https://visionaryos.app/demo/top3

Every. Single. Time.

But it wasn’t always that way… and it’s easy to see why.

I’ve had a lot of conversations with ND service providers who feel like they need five days (or six… or seven… or fifteen…) just to keep up with what’s already on their plates.

• Because there’s “too much to hold” in their business

• Because if they don’t work thru the weekends, things will fall through the cracks

• Because they get so caught up doing the urgent — that the only time to do the important is after hours

• Because the promise of “just one more thing” is too hard to avoid, even when it’s 3am and you have a client call at 9

Truth: I’ve lived every single one of those experiences, too.

That’s why I’m writing this.

Because the thing I understand now — the thing I wish someone had shown me earlier — is that more time isn’t the answer.

And in fact, it’s quite the opposite.

It’s so easy to assume that more time is the thing that will actually move the needle.

But the truth is, ND service providers don’t need more time… and fixing this is one of the simplest shifts you can make in your business.

Here’s why.

Reason #1: The Power of Constraint

Researchers once took a group of kids to a park — the kind that’s in the middle of a big city. Big trees, lots of green space. “Go play!” they said. And the kids did, but for some reason, the kids mostly hung out in the middle of the park.

Then the researchers took the same kids to another park. Same kind of park, same space, same feel. “Go play!” they said again. And this time, the kids ran to every corner of the park, joyful cries coming from all around.

What was the difference between the two parks?

The latter had a fence around it.

Boundaries, it turns out, don’t restrict us. They give us something much more useful: a sense of safety, a sense of containment, and a place where our energy actually has somewhere to go.

So when your week is structured with a ton of open time—five full days, maybe spilling into nights and weekends—you’re not just giving yourself “more room to get things done.”

You’re creating an open space that is too much for your brain to handle.

Most ND service providers assume the opposite. They think:

“I just need more time.”
“If I had another day, I could finally get ahead.”
“I just need space to catch up.”

But if that’s where you’re at right now, here’s what I’d ask you:

❓ What actually happens when you do have more open time?
❓ Do you move faster… or do things spread out?
❓ Do you get clearer… or does everything start to blur together?

Because what I see, over and over again, is this:

❌ The work expands to fill the time
❌ The priorities get less clear, not more
❌ The important work gets delayed “just a little longer”
❌ And the week ends without the thing that actually mattered getting done

Sound familiar?

Now, let’s compare that to what happens when your time is constrained.

When your week has boundaries, your decisions get sharper.
When your time is limited, your brain stops trying to hold everything.
And when you can’t do it all, you’re finally forced to choose what actually matters.

That’s when things start to change.

✅ The important work gets done earlier.
✅ You spend your limited brain power on things that matter.
✅ And instead of your week stretching endlessly… it ends with time to spare.

I’ve seen this shift happen almost instantly, where someone goes from working six scattered days…

To getting the important work done in four, simply because their time finally had constraints.

The structure isn’t there to limit you. It’s there to free you.

Reason #2: Create Momentum (Instead of Constantly Restarting)

There’s a pattern I’ve seen with a lot of ND service providers of the years.

One that, when I point it out, every single person recognizes… and then despite knowing it’s part of their ND-ness, still tries their darndest to try to change.

It’s the loop between bursts of hyperfocus and then… nothing.

It goes something like this:

💥 You get a burst of energy and make some real progress
😫 You lose that energy and shift to something easier
🐌 The original project stalls
⏰ You come back later, but by that time the context is gone
🤯 And you have to remember where you were, remake a bunch of decisions, and rebuild almost from scratch

Rinse, repeat.

From the outside, it gets labelled as inconsistency.

From the inside, it feels more like… “I had it, and now I don’t know how to get it back.”

When your business is spread across too many priorities, that cycle gets amplified, because every time you come back to something, you’re rebuilding the entire context from scratch.

But when you narrow the focus…

When you reduce the number of active things your brain is trying to track to one Strategic Focus…

Your energy, when you have it, has a reliable place to go.

Not five. Not fifteen.

Just one.

And that means you’re not constantly restarting.

You’re continuing.

Reason #3: You Stop Abandoning the Work That Grows Your Business

Being ND makes us great service providers.

We are truly experts at our craft. We are genuinely excellent at client work. We get things done. We show up fully, and get real results for the people we serve.

And despite the lies that popular media tells about us, most of us ND folks care aren’t rude or unfeeling.

We actually care deeply about the people around us.

That’s not something you want to change.

But when you’re a business owner, the blessing can also be a curse.

Client work is one of the easiest places for your brain to lock in. It’s clear, it’s immediate, and it’s tied to someone else right in front of you.

Add in a healthy dose of rejection sensitivity and a nervous system that would just rather not rock the boat…

Of course it gets prioritized.

But then there’s the work that grows your business: the offer refinement, the positioning updates, the systems and operations and hiring, oh my!

That work is almost never urgent, which means it’s the first thing to get pushed.

And over time, that creates a version of your business where you’re doing good work, staying busy, helping people…

… but end up with nothing left over for yourself.

If the most important work isn’t clear and protected ahead of time, it doesn’t happen.

And if it doesn’t happen, the business doesn’t change.

But the moment you make focus visible and protected, it becomes the thing that actually moves your business forward the fastest.

Reason #4: Create Space for Your Brain to Actually Think

This kind of structure gives your brain somewhere to rest. Which, if you’ve spent any amount of time feeling like your brain is constantly “on”—tracking tasks, holding open loops, trying not to forget things—feels. so. good.

But more than that, it changes how you show up in your business. You’re able to be way more present, and way more focused on what actually matters… instead of using most of your energy just trying to keep things on the rails.

When you stop trying to do everything… constantly juggling tasks, decisions, and “don’t forget about”…

.. you no longer need to spend every spare moment thinking about what you might be missing.

When our users step into this, they’re able to actually step away from their work without their brain still running in the background.

(A far cry from “resting” on the couch while their brain is still tracking the 17 things they haven’t done yet.)

And it totally transforms the way they show up in their business.

They show up sharper. They have more mental clarity. They’re not operating from that constant low-level pressure, background noise, or fear that they’re going to drop a ball they’ve forgotten even existed.

They can actually think strategically, make higher-level decisions, and step into more of a CEO role—because their brain finally has the space to do that.

And that means they can focus on what they’re building, instead of just reacting to what’s currently on fire…

Because they’re not using all their energy just to hold everything together anymore.

Reason#5: Escape the “Should’ing On Yourself” Trap.

I see a lot of ND service providers — even the ones who are making good money, getting killer client results, and running businesses that look really solid from the outside — still thinking they’re not doing enough.

They’re running the perfect meeting structure. They’ve got the most perfect onboarding automations. They’ve probably created five different planners, ten different routines, and forty-bajillion ways of organizing their Google Drive.

And yet they’re still thinking, the problem is them.

It’s internalized ableism, of course.

But it’s also putting a very real cap on how successful — and sustainable — their business can actually be.

It shuts down possibility. It keeps you optimizing for productivity, perfection, and “doing it right”… when what you actually need is clarity, capacity, and the ability to create.

You know, the three things your business actually depends on.

Shifting out of this mindset isn’t easy, but it starts by changing what you expect from yourself. Building a way of working that matches how your brain functions means fighting against systems that are invested in keeping you down.

But if you give up and let them win, nothing changes.

Because you’re not failing to follow-through on a good system.

You’ve been trying to operate within a system that wasn’t ever going to work for you in the first place.

That system is what tells you over, and over, and over again…

• “You just need to be more disciplined.”

• “You need to stop procrastinating”

• “You should be able to handle this by now”

• “You can’t be done until it’s all working.”

• “You’re the problem, the bottleneck, the thing that needs fixing.”

The thing is, none of those things are actually the problem.

And they don’t have to be true.

I’ve sold millions of dollars worth of coaching, DFY operational support, and business strategy consulting.

I’ve worked with hundreds of founders, from the solopreneur aiming for $10k per month to the empire builder growing past $10M per year.

And though I didn’t know it at the time, most of them — like me — were autistic, ADHD, or AuDHD.

So I’ve seen a lot of what works (and what doesn’t) for growing a successful business as an ND founder.

It’s why, when someone tells me about their business, their client load, and everything they’re trying to juggle, I can quickly see…

➡️ What they should actually be focusing on right now—and what’s just noise (even if it feels important)

➡️ Why their current way of working isn’t working… even though they’ve got great systems, solid routines, and everything “set up properly”

➡️ How to narrow everything down to ONE Strategic Focus that actually grows the business (instead of five half-finished projects competing for attention)

➡️ The “invisible load” that’s draining their time and energy—without them even realizing it

➡️ Where their capacity is actually going each week (and why they always feel like they’re running out of time)

➡️ How to structure their work so things get easier and more efficient over time (instead of harder and more overwhelming)

➡️ A completely different way of deciding what to work on—so they can follow through on the right things, without second-guessing every decision

Call it magic if you want… or, more realistically, just a healthy dose of autistic pattern recognition.

But it’s a skill I’ve built by working inside hundreds of businesses—and watching the same patterns play out over and over again.

So I know what happens when people experience what it’s like to organize their work and business around a single Strategic Focus.

They go from:
🫣 “I sit down every morning and try to piece together my day.”

To:
😌 Opening their laptop and already knowing what matters.

From:
🤪 “I find myself doing busy work… being really busy with busy work…”

To:
😎 Actually finishing the thing that moves their business forward.

From:
😩 “My weeks are so half haphazard… the urgent gets done, the important never even gets onto the plan.”

To:

🥳 Having one clear focus that everything else organizes around.

This is the kind of result I live for… because it’s one of the highest-leverage changes you can make—not just in your business, but in your life.

I’ve watched people go from constantly feeling behind, overwhelmed, and stretched thin…

To having actual space again.

Space to think.
Space to focus.
Space to step away from their work without everything falling apart.

Not because they worked harder. Not because they put in longer hours. But because they stopped trying to do everything at once—and started spending LESS time on the one focus that actually matters.

And because this shift is so powerful (and honestly, so much fun to facilitate)…

I decided to get together with a couple of ND friends, and create a virtual retreat just for ND service providers, where this is the entire focus.

Introducing:
The Spring Unplanning Retreat

April 27 - 28
9am - noon PT
Live on Zoom

Inside this two-day retreat, we’re going to take everything that’s currently living in your head… and turn it into ONE clear next step for your business.

If you join us, you’ll walk away with a Strategic Focus that grows your business and gives you your time and energy back.

We’re also going to be working through your actual obstacles & opportunities in real time, which means you won’t just be learning concepts…

… you’ll be moving your business forward while you’re there.

Because clarity doesn’t come from thinking harder.

It comes from having the right constraints, the right questions, and the right structure to find what matters.

Finally, you’ll discover exactly what’s working right now — from peers and our expert facilitators…

And turn your Strategic Focus into a plan for real growth, without needing to do more, create more, or work more hours.

Not something generic. Not something that works “in theory.”

A custom 6-week plan that works for YOU, your capacity, and your real life.

For example, you might choose to focus on:

• Installing a simple curation-based marketing system

  Co-host Cheryl Woodhouse will show you how to use curation—not more content—to get more sales in 2026

• Getting a team member to take over lead generation

  At our last event, one attendee shared how her VA was generating qualified leads every week using a simple spreadsheet

• Simplifying how your team communicates

  Like the attendee who was inspired to ditch her project management tool for a single Slack channel—and took the headache out of status meetings entirely.

• Running a weekly CEO review that frees you up to do the work you love most
  I do this ^^ every week and consistently get everything done in less than 20 hours— leaving plenty of time for creating, playing, and resting.

I’ve done this work with private clients hundreds of times—in workshops, in epic multi-day events, with private clients…

But this time is different.

This isn’t a packed, back-to-back, “sit there and fry your brain for hours” kind of event.

It’s designed for how ND brains actually work.

There’s space to think. Time to process. Room to step away when you need it.

And structured conversations where you can work through your ideas (instead of just listening to someone else talk about theirs).

Because the goal isn’t to overwhelm you or add more to your plate.

It’s to give you the space and structure to actually use those ideas, and finally turn them into something that will work.

And that’s why I’m so excited about this.

Because it means a small group of you get to experience what it’s like to be in a space where focus is found, decisions get made, and your business finally starts to feel simpler again.

25 seats.
$99 USD | $129 CAD.
That’s it.

We’ve opened this up to our current customers & members first, which means some of these spots are already spoken for.

There’s no fake urgency here; just know that it’s a small, intentionally sized group—and once it’s full, it’s full.

So if you’re feeling a pull to this… don’t overthink it.

You’ll be a great fit to join us if…

1️⃣ You’re an autistic, ADHD, or AuDHD service provider that already has an offer that works (and gets real results)

2️⃣ You’re busy, and feel like your time and energy are being pulled in too many directions

3️⃣ You know your business could grow… if you could just focus on the right thing

4️⃣ You’re ready for more space, more clarity, and a way of working that actually fits your brain

5️⃣ You’re willing to show up, think deeply, and make real decisions about your business

If this sounds like what you’ve been needing…

You can grab one of the remaining spots here:

Register Now

PS. If you’re not sure if this is the right fit, send me a message and tell me what’s feeling messy or stuck in your business right now.

I’ll point you in the right direction—even if it’s not this.

Not dramatically, and not all at once.

Just... quietly. Around week six or eight, the energy behind it changed. You were still doing the work, but the plan had started to feel slightly… hypothetical.

And then one day you realized you hadn’t looked at it in two weeks.

So you opened it, and the guilt spiral kicked in:

I have no follow-through. I can’t stick to anything. I keep doing this.

I want to talk about that story… because I think it’s wrong.

Not wrong in a “you just need to believe in yourself” way.

But wrong in a structural, mechanical, “this is what happens when you try to force yourself to work like a neurotypical” kind of way.

Psssst…. ADHD, autistic and AuDHD service providers:

The Downfall Of Quarterly Planning

When we were running our coaching and consulting business, we saw this pattern so many times we stopped being surprised by it.

And when we built VisionaryOS, we made a deliberate decision: no quarterly planning.

Not because we didn’t believe in planning, but because fifteen years of watching brilliant ND founders hit the same wall at week six told us it wasn’t the right move.

Because the truth is, traditional (read: neurotypical) planning advice has a bunch of assumptions baked in:

• That your executive function is roughly consistent.

• That your capacity on day 60 will look something like day one.

• That you can accurately estimate how long something will take.

• That you can translate “big vision” into “what I do today” without losing three hours in the process.

And in a business context?

It also assumes that you can sustain momentum across a 90-day arc the way a large organization with five departments can.

Never mind that those large organizations have distributed cognitive load and enough infrastructure that no single person is carrying the whole thing.

You are not that organization.

You’re one person — maybe with a small team — running a business that depends heavily on your working memory, your executive function, your ability to hold context across weeks and months.

Why Your Brain Just… Stops

See, ND working memory has a hard cap. A real one.

Not a metaphorical “I’m so busy” cap. An actual limit on how many things your brain can hold active and accessible at once.

And when you’re holding a 90-day plan with twelve priorities across six active projects — something ends up dropping; it always does.

Not because you’re undisciplined, and not because you aren’t trying your best…

But because you’re one brain, at capacity, trying to carry more than any one brain was designed to hold.

And so when you reach week six, one of two things happens:

1. You’re done... earlier than expected.

ND hyperfocus is real. When you’re locked in, you go faster than the plan assumed. What was supposed to take twelve weeks took four. And now you’re staring at six remaining weeks of a plan that no longer applies.

So you either force yourself to keep working on something that’s already complete.

Or you abandon the plan.

Or you quietly pivot to something new and spend the remaining weeks half-on the old thing, half-starting the new thing, feeling like you’re failing at both.

2. You’re just … done. Energetically.

This one is harder.

Because your ND brain — excellent at pattern recognition — has been quietly processing information about this project for weeks.

And it has arrived at a conclusion it hasn’t told you yet: this approach isn’t working for me.

The dopamine is gone. The novelty is gone. The executive function that was propping up your momentum has quietly reallocated itself to things that feel more solvable.

So then you have to deal with the pressure of the plan. And the demand avoidance goes to war with the need to follow the rules and…

You just can’t any more.

Your brain has genuinely moved on, and the plan never caught up.

Why You Can’t Just “Get Back On Track”

Of course, the follow-on advice is just as useless:

Adjust the plan. Recalibrate. Reset your milestones.

It’s not wrong. But it misses the deeper problem.

Because the problem isn’t the plan. It’s that traditional planning was built for organizations with departments, and department heads, and enough structure that 90 days is a practical unit of time.

It assumes consistent executive function, stable capacity, and linear momentum.

ND brains don’t work that way.

We work in sprints and crashes. Hyperfocus and blank. On fire one week, running on fumes the next.

And the truth is: a plan that only works when your executive function is intact isn’t a plan that could ever work for you.

Later this week, I’ll show you what that looks like — the math of why a shorter, narrower plans will always win out over bigger ones for brains like ours….

But for now: if any of this sounds familiar — the week-six drop-off, the guilt, the story about follow-through — know that you’re not broken.

The system just wasn’t made for you.

Hi, I’m Breanne (she/her), and I’m the co-founder of VisionaryOS.

It’s the first (and only) software purpose-built for ND service providers, designed to take all the "could dos" currently swirling inside your head, and prioritize them based on your current time, money, and energy constraints.

Try a free demo today at https://visionaryos.app/demo/top3

A conversation needs to happen, and it doesn’t. Not for weeks. Sometimes months. Sometimes a year.

We wanted to understand what’s actually working when service business owners navigate those moments well — and what gets in the way when they don’t. So in late March 2026, we hosted a peer roundtable with coaches, consultants, and service providers specifically about the tricky conversations they were navigating in their businesses.

Twelve people participated across two breakout groups — one for solo operators, one for those with teams.

This is what we heard.

1. The body knows before the mind does

Ask someone when they first knew a tricky conversation needed to happen, and the answer is almost never “when I looked at the numbers.”

It’s earlier than that, and it’s almost always physical: a feeling in the gut, a flicker of unease in a passing exchange.

It arrives before anyone can articulate what’s wrong. And almost universally, it gets filed away: “I’ll deal with it later. I don’t have time for this right now. I’ll see if it fixes itself.”

Of course, it doesn’t fix itself – and the longer the signal gets ignored, the more expensive the conversation ultimately becomes.

2. Empathy makes the signs easy to override

The service providers we gathered tended to be highly empathic; many described their level of care as core to their work.

It’s also, in the context of tricky conversations, what most reliably generated the delay:

The client is in crisis, the team member is going through something hard… there was always something to justify the problem.

The problem isn’t the gut feeling; the feeling is usually right. The problem is that empathy gives people a socially acceptable reason to override it — until it becomes unavoidable.

3. While waiting, costly workarounds take over

Between sensing something is wrong and actually addressing it, people work around it.

They do it themselves, they absorb extra work, they re-explain the same thing for the third time, or they wait for the other person to be ready. Again, these workarounds often weren’t rooted in avoidance; rather, they felt like flexibility, kindness, and problem solving.

But the costs accumulate quickly. Every participant described a workaround. In every case, it cost more – in time, money, energy, and mental resources – than the conversation would have.

4. The workarounds end when something external makes it unavoidable

The delays in these conversations — weeks, months, a year — aren’t primarily about fear. They’re about waiting for something external to make the conversation feel justified: losing a client, gathering enough evidence, or hitting an immovable deadline.

Nobody said “I finally had enough courage.” They said “something finally made it unavoidable.”

The math changed not because of how they felt, but because something concrete arrived that they could point to.

5. The longer the delay, the higher the risk of rejection

As long as the warning signs were “just a feeling” — and empathy provided good reasons to doubt it — things continued. But as soon as the consequences were no longer tenable, the nervous system identified a new clear and present danger:

The conversation itself.

The relationship might not survive it. The client might leave. The team member might be devastated. The abstract future cost of not having the conversation is easy to minimize. The immediate social cost of having it is not.

What changes this is an objective basis for the conversation; something that doesn’t depend on how either party feels about it in the moment.

6. Have the internal conversation before the external one

The hardest conversations aren’t primarily hard because of the other person. They’re hard because the service provider’s own clarity isn’t there yet:

• They don’t know what outcome they actually want.

• They haven’t decided what they’re willing to accept.

• They haven’t understood where their responsibility begins and ends.

And so the external conversation has no foundation because the internal one hasn’t happened.

When people had worked out their own position first — what they were responsible for, where their responsibility ended, what they’d do if the conversation went the way they feared — the external conversation became specific rather than daunting.

7. Make responsibility explicit — up front and in writing

Scope problems are responsibility problems. Accountability problems are responsibility problems. Missed deadlines are responsibility problems.

But the reframe that landed hardest was that responsibility isn’t split 50/50.

Rather, each person is 100% responsible for their part (and 0% responsible for the others’).

When that is made explicit — in agreements, in language, in regular check-ins — the tricky conversation becomes simply a conversation about adjusting a known framework, not constructing one from scratch under pressure.

8. Objective measures make all of this easier

Shared clarity works best when it’s grounded in something observable.

When both parties can see the same data — a metric, a milestone, a pattern over time — the conversation has a foundation that doesn’t depend on anyone’s memory of what was said, or their emotional state on the day it comes up.

Several participants described how the presence or absence of measurable expectations shaped how hard the conversation felt.

When there were clear metrics, the conversation was almost automatic. When there weren’t, everything depended on whose power and authority was strongest on the day. But when everything was clear and in the open, conversations were collaborative and constructive.

Key Takeaways

The pattern across this roundtable was consistent: people knew something was wrong before they could name it, and they waited — sometimes for months — for something external to make acting on it feel justified. What broke the delay was never courage. It was an objective signal concrete enough to point to.

That’s the gap VisionaryOS is designed to close. When a client’s engagement metric starts declining, or a project milestone keeps slipping, or a KPI trends the wrong way for three weeks — that’s not a feeling.

That’s data.

And data changes the permission structure.

It turns “I think something might be off” into “here’s what I’m seeing, and here’s what I’d like to do about it.”

So when VisionaryOS tracks what’s happening in your business — it means you don’t have to hold it all in your head. When something shows warning signs in a client relationship, a project, or a key metric, it brings it to your attention early, backed with real data. Not to make the conversation for you. To make the conversation possible before it becomes unavoidable.

The goal isn’t to eliminate hard conversations. It’s to make sure you’re having them when you still have options — not after the cost of avoidance has already been paid.

If that’s something you’d like to experience in practice, we’d love to show you how it works.

Visit https://VisionaryOS. app for more details or to get started.